What would you do if you were in my position

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Originally Posted by Late_vamp

well tough decision , it hasent happened (i hope it wont ) , i would feel like a chump being the guy that didnt get lots of action ( well i have but not in terms of how many girls iv had) and ending up with the girl who went through the whole town . so i would leave her and forget about her , but before forgetting i would scrub my mouth as best as i could and go check if i have any std's if i used no protection .

i dont care if she tries to reassure me , i would feel like a total loser being with this girl , especially in public , just thinking about how many guys around us screwed her at some point and they see me now holding her hand or worst , her having my kids and my wedding ring . i would feel like everybody had their fun and im just picking up the leftovers ... NaStY ...of course she would be nice , why ? because she would know that she has little chance with another guy , i would still leave her ... not to mention how i woulnt be able to have sex with her without thinking at the back of my head how many guys ran through her like a train .

yes i know its rare to find women who havent screwed a whole nation now a days , but if you look for women from other cultures , then you will find one thats conserved/decent or maybe even virgin ... hey im muslim anyways , girls are SUPPOSED to be virgins , even if i know some arent . those are bad and probabbly have bad family anyway .

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Seems like we have some things in common.

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Originally Posted by Nameless18

Well i suppose we think differently then. I know that nowadays, modern people don't really care about keeping their virginities. What you're saying is that it's ok for guys to lose their virginities while not ok for girls? And that you would still throw her away cause she told you her past which she could have hidden from you but still told you anyway cause she loves you?

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So we must show her pity and forgive under the assumption that she "could" have lied but didn't?...that is stupid. Tell the truth and face the consequences or live as a lying scum. Another person who doesn't deserve to have Cloud in their avatar. Things like that you do not lie about because they are important to the other individual.

Ill go to my parents and demand a thousand dollars and say that they have to give it to me because other wise I would have stole it and they would never know who did it. I am a nice son though so I do not lie and just demand the money under the fact that I "could" lie.

Ok what I don't get is this girl wants to wait until shes 18 to have sex but surely just because she has turned 18 won't mean shes ready for a sexual relationship?

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Originally Posted by *Bright_Eyes*

Ok what I don't get is this girl wants to wait until shes 18 to have sex but surely just because she has turned 18 won't mean shes ready for a sexual relationship?

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She claims that after she turns 18 she'll definately be ready.
She is even eager for that.

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Originally Posted by iLLuSioN_x

She claims that after she turns 18 she'll definately be ready.
She is even eager for that.

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OK. Still find that weird that shes wants to wait until shes 18. Suggests to me that shes not ready but anywho

Maybe she's doing it as a bit of a test sort of thing. See how much you really care about her requests. Or maybe she isn't ready so 18 sounds like a good milestone.

Yeah and you didn't hear the weirdest part yet.
Last two times we pleased eachoter, she grabbed my **** and slithly rubbed, inserting it into her, like half a cm to a a full cm.
I didn't push her of course then she said that she want to stop cause she's afraid of those little drips on the tip of the penis that can get her pregnant. :|
I suggested then that I should get a condom from my room somewhere when she said no... (I believe she said that cause with protection we'll be having like sex or something and sex is not good <18 )
I've heard that is very very hard for them girls to stop when they are in such position and turned on like hell. How come she can ? :P

Like... wtf!

I know it sounds close but a girl as ambisious as her won't give up her principles and I am more than 100% sure of that. Though I don't know what the hell was that.

LOL... Girls can stop whenever they please. SI has nothing to do with being turned on or in a certain position...HAHAH

Yes it sucks to have other people talking about something your not getting, but if your happy with this girl then stop stressing over it. Ok, so you don't want to be a virgin anymore...and your hormones are going crazy! If you really liked this girl and was not obsessed with getting laid this would not be a problem. Age has nothing to do with virgintiy I just imagine she set a boundary for herself and that is not the factor here. The factor is your obsessig over getting laid instead of respecting her wishes to wait until she's ready.

If your that hard up for sex then just get out of the relationship and go find it elsewhere. Otherwise, be patient and don't push her.

LoL, she put it in a cm? I don't get it, why not just have sex....she already is doing it. Is there a deep meter that counts how far you go in telling you that you are finally having sex? ...then balloons come down and stuff right?

That's happened to me before with a girlfriend... we hadn't had sex yet and we were foolin around and she just guided it on in... except she DID let me go get a condom - guess I'm just more irresistable than you are. ;D

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins

LoL, she put it in a cm? I don't get it, why not just have sex....she already is doing it. Is there a deep meter that counts how far you go in telling you that you are finally having sex? ...then balloons come down and stuff right?

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Dude I'm as confused as you are, believe me.

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins

im 22 and a virgin...I dont even have time to get laid with school and work and nor do I care to anymore.

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I always thought that you were a Macdaddy who went around scoring exclusively with virgin pusssy-hence the name Only-virgins,,,LOL now I find out that your a virgin.,.LOL.

We should have a seperate sub forum for you folks.
Dating Talk
Sex Talk
Virgin Talk

Illusion X, This girl is acting like a pompous little troll. She is teasing you. She is isn't right! she isn't pleasing her man and that is not right.

Get rid of her, you can do better.

Don't be a turkey.

Stick with her.

She sounds like a nice girl.

You know what?

You'll break up with her, try to find a new girl, get unlucky or else just find some girl who is really easy adn that won't be very satisfying.

Gosh, I can't even beleive you're entertaining this notion.

Cad.

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Originally Posted by carpflounder

I always thought that you were a Macdaddy who went around scoring exclusively with virgin pusssy-hence the name Only-virgins,,,LOL now I find out that your a virgin.,.LOL.

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Yea, you'r slow thats all.

If she isn't comfortable having sex, you shouldn't pressure her.

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Originally Posted by Only-virgins

It is apparent that many are looking/searching for a mate...I on the other hand just want a lover..and yes..there is a large difference between the two.

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How do you know?

If you've never had either, how can you know? you can imagine, but I doubt you can really know.