Originally Posted by whaywardj
Exactly. "Blah, blah, blah." I don't think anything anyone here says will make any difference. You appear to have made up your mind to move your boyfriend in on your father's coat-tails regardless of the risks involved. You're already rationalizing doing it. You're being very foolish to think your father won't see through the rationalizations and perceive your inability to delay gratifications...a form of selfishness that, likely, got you in trouble with drugs in the first place, and a character flaw you, evidently, still haven't got a grip on.