I think this is the conclusion I'm coming to. Indie asked in an earlier post if he activates a "sympathy response" in me? And I think he does, very much so. I am still struggling with some guilt over our breakup. I know I have to get over this.
I feel pretty good about just going down the single route at the moment. One of my best girlfriends (who is also single) just moved back to the city and we're already planning to go out every weekend and have fun.
She's perfect to go out with because she's a tall, skinny blond and I'm a short, voluptuous brunette, so I have a feeling a guy who likes my type might not go for her and vice versa.
She and I were having that "biological clock talk" this weekend and joked that if we both didn't find men in five years, we'd raise a kid together.