Coco ... you go WAY too far! Men are curious, and moderate (non-addictive) porn satisfies their natural need for variety in a way that PROTECTS the relationship. Imagine if they fulfilled these fantasies with real live sex instead.
Men rarely say "Oh it does nothing for me, I prefer you baby" except as a defensive move. The basic disagreement (and there have been lots of threads on this topic) is that women often believe that the models in the movie are the kind of girls their boyfriends really want to be with. SO NOT TRUE!
I'll agree with you that some men are addicted to the stuff ... but not nearly as many as you think.
Carl.