Is it ever ok to take on a mistress in a marriage?

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Damn, Mish. You made me spit out my iced tea.

See? :)

Most relationship problems are at the fault of poor communication.

Glad you were finally able to reach your hand out to your wife.

never have had a problem reaching out to her, its her turn been too many years.

Bullshit. Communication is an effort that takes two people.

nah, its manipulation the way this one works, she needs to be accountable for falling into her tirades ............

this is true. there comes a time when you have to put your foot down. it makes men more sexified when they do this. no girl can respect a guy that will just continually accept the silent treatment without coaxing information out of them. sounds like the doors been opened.

Good job Harte. Just remember that today's tranquility is tomorrow's termagant.

She'll probably test your resolve, so stick to your boundaries. People only give you the respect you take for yourself.