Originally Posted by
TimeToGrowUp
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Wow. Just keeps getting better for me.
After 5 weeks of basic silence, I get a series of raging, cursing text messages accusing me of feeding information to some guys who frequent a strip club where her trainer's ex-fiance works. For people who follow my story, remember last week some people I'm acquainted with at our gym pulled me aside to tell me that my ex- was dating her trainer now.
Apparently these guys were telling the stripper that her ex- was now dating my ex- .......and that in doing so he had "downgraded" ..... she apparently called him to confront him on all of this. So that's when the texts started flying my way.
Her texts were nasty. Telling me I better stop feeding people information and shut my friends up, they don't know what they have coming to them. I finally decided I'm not texting about this so I called. I had to raise my voice a few times but reiterated to her house stupid that all sounds. Me, the guy in pain, the guy who's still in love, the guy who thought about proposing is "feeding" these guys? Feeding them what? Why the f- would I do that? They acted on their own accord. I'm sure they're doing it just to get in the stripper's good graces. And they're not even my friends, just people I know from the gym. Everyone knows everyone in there. It's not rocket science here. I also told her how I couldn't believe how she could go 5 weeks without saying a word to me and then all of the sudden come out cussing like that.
I thought it was cute how in the middle of the conversation she calls her trainer's ex- a "psycho stripper" when, while we were together, I explained how I cautious I was about my girl being around strippers all the time. You wouldn't believe how many former and current ex-strippers are involved in competitive fitness. It was "Oh you don't know them, you're being too judgmental." At one point I actually felt a little guilty, maybe I was being too judgmental of people all the time.
Most importantly, I explained to her what I don't get here is what does this all matter? How is this disrupting anything between her and the trainer. What does it matter what some guys at a strip club say to his ex-? He can just choose to not answer her calls. We were back at the issue again - is my ex- dating her trainer? She kept saying that's not what's important, but no .... that's not what's important here. I said just tell me so that I can move on, unlike her I didn't get a chance to weeks before the relationship was actually over. I told her it's important because this has the look and the feel of the fox in the hen house, a guy I trusted my girlfriend around for 4 months.
She still wouldn't admit it. She did apologize for cursing at me and coming at me all wrong. Though.
WTF.