Originally Posted by
IndiReloaded
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Sounds to me like you want a divorce but can't bring yourself to it. Do you have kids, sorry if I missed that.
As for those women who have lots of sex... might want to ask them how LONG they've been married to their current partner. There is something called the Honeymoon phase. I'm not putting any of the other ladies down, just in perspective. Giga might want to mention how much sex she was having with her ex in the years before they split and how satisfying it was. Bluesum is engaged to be married to a great guy after a horrific divorce. Those types of life events changes ones perspective.
Vash & I have been married the longest here, far as I know. I've been with my husband for 20 years, married for most of them. First marriages, both of us.
While we don't get it on like rabbits anymore several times a day (not all the time, anyway), we certainly enjoy sex on a regular basis. Its a bonding and stress-releasing experience. But we did go through a bad patch of our marriage (about a year) where neither of us was feeling too friendly, much less frisky, towards the other. Such things pass and are a normal part of marriage, IMO.
Women enjoy sex with men who meet their emotional needs. Men tend to come at it from the other direction. It sounds to me that neither of you communicate all that well. Its easy to pin this all on your wife, but I know from experience that such states rarely happen in a vacuum. I would suggest getting some couple's counselling to sort out some of your deeper issues.
Good luck.