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Originally Posted by atodd [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'd go with something like "I had a lot of fun this break. I hope you know that I like you and I'm hoping this wasn't a one-time thing. How do you feel about it?"
Is it too early to text him??? Hah...
I really need to work on my impatience.
For gods sake, rip off his clothes and give him one. What are you waiting for - eternal love? Marriage? Proof that 'he is the one'?
A strike of lightening from heaven, perhaps?
All of the above. :)
Jk... uhh, maybe knowing that this isn't a just a fling? It's not all about sex, people.
He just contacted me first, btw. Sweet victory.
URGENT! PLEASE HELP ME RESPOND!
Me: "Well, I had a good time hanging out over the break. I know our situation is kinda weird right now, but I'd like this to not necessarily be a one-time thing. What are your thoughts on us (you won't hurt my feelings)?"
John: "well ive had fun also. honestly. i don't regret a thing."
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What should I say?
Err.... that's a weird text from him. Go "does that mean you just want it to be a one time thing or you want to give long distance a try?"Quote:
Originally Posted by atodd [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
How about...Quote:
Originally Posted by Gratedwasabi [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
":) good. Where should we go from here? Again, I know we're in an odd spot.. but I like you."
Too late.. sent.
Okayy.. so the rest of the convo went:
John: "yes we are and I don't know where this could go. but im still struggling with feelings for mc." (MC is is ex.)
Me: "I'm just as confused as you are, I think... and I understand the thing with MC. It's still really soon. I didn't mean to pressure you.. we don't have to label anything. I'm always here to talk if you need me."
John: "ok thanks. im still here for you too. but it is a little soon."
Argh. I'm sorry. :/Quote:
Originally Posted by atodd [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Meh.. I mean, it honesty is a little soon for both of us. We both went through intense break ups not even two months ago. I don't really know what I expected him to say.
That wasn't a COMPLETE shut down, was it? What I got from that, was that he's just not ready to commit to anything serious yet. He's still confused about everything. Am I right?
No, it wasn't a complete shut down. It's going to be hard to go from that to a relationship, though, when you're a distance away and not able to see each other. I would really suggest backing off and not contacting him; make him realize he likes you and try to get you.Quote:
Originally Posted by atodd [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That's exactly what I'm going to do. Let's hope I have the will power.. and that he'll actually miss me. hahQuote:
Originally Posted by atodd [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sigh.
Thanks for your help through all of this.
He'll miss you. The naked thing but no serious touching was a good call. That drives a guy mad. :PQuote:
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