really? i have never had any idea what's sexy about body hair, esp when they look like furry animals and want women to shave everything. maybe diveristy is a good thing, it makes sure there's something for everyone
i know guys my age but no one i like in that kind of way. from experience, i've been observing sort of cool self-sufficient guys i didn't like but who seemed like top notch at some social scene or other choosing very simple, subservient girls, plump most of the time and especially ones who admired them. this is pretty frustrating. even my lover from 2 years ago when things fell apart went for one of those and keeps writing me love letters : )