yea... also known as the ole "bait and switch." Something I'm ashamed to admit that women seem to do far more then men. Disingenuous and vile that.Quote:
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Can I get a hearty "Amen" from my fellow sisters? This is word! Op you are the author of your own mis-fortune and it would do you well to grow up and learn a lesson from this.Quote:
But he was obviously serious all that time in how he felt. You knew his feelings, if he had lied to you in the start then maybe you can say he won't man up, but in reality you always knew he wouldn't because he doesn't want children, period.
yes, time to get on with your "plan." YOUR plan, certainly not his or anything that he agreed to.Quote:
If you want the baby plan on having it without him as your partner for now and find other people to help and support you emotionally during your pregnancy and birth, you will make yourself ill arguing about this with him. You both have made your minds up on this topic.
This is not an opinion. It is fact. You're bound him in a way he did not want to be bound. I will say that if he was so adament about not wanting children then he should have gotten snipped because like I said, there are disengenuous people out there and if you don't want kids then you should be looking after your choice yourself and not leaving that up to others.Quote:
Offering to pay child support and visiting is his way of manning up, in my opinion but only you know him.