No I think people get to say what they really think/feel here. IRL most the people I know have a co-dependent way of thinking and never "get" my point. Here a lot of people do. Just the other day I was talking to family about my cousin. She took back this a**hole who treated her like a toy for 2 years and then after nearly a year without him he comes crawling back amd she jumps in head first. I said something like I will never trust him and I wish she would open her eyes.. family "oh love is blind, we all make mistakes, shes young, we have all been there, she will learn eventually, hes changed, hes grown up a bit and seems to be treating her better". I just felt like banging my head off a brick wall coz i know how this ends. Him cheating, breaking her heart and me picking up the pieces again