Just in case you haven't noticed, and you seem to continue to ignore the advice being given to you by women.... We are telling you that your GF has got some serious shit going in her head. Now if you refuse to see that, then that's your bad. You make your bed, you can sleep on it!
An yes you are needy because you can't stop talking about this BS. If you are smart enough and know what is good for you, you need to divert your attention into something else that is more productive for you instead of posting here 24/7 about your insecure GF who probably doesn't give a shit whether your suffering or not!!!
And WTF, you're in love??? Give me a break. You are only together for a few months and this argument with your childish and insecure GF should not even qualify as an argument. Come back here whining after the honeymoon stage is over cause then, you will have a legitimate reason to bitch and complain about your relationship. Grow up!