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why is it then why mostly all rapists and serial killers are sexual deviants? Into sadism and power and control over their victims?
Not what you just said there makes any sense but you forget that the sub has given consent, unlike the rapist or serial killer who doesn't get consent... so people who voluntarily consent are not a victim.
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Sure there are many blue collared workers out there who go to work everyday and havent raped anyone but still have an urge for control over the vulnerable (mainly spouses).
Minx (and all those that consent and are not being abused) crave the control when it comes to the bedroom. It does not mean that they are being controlled or abused outside of the bedroom and in the dynamics of their union. Please don't mix up domestic abuse with sexual submission.
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I betcha if we were to ask the OP where her fantasies stem from, we would find out about some sort of abuse from the past.
Even if we did find that out it wouldn't make your theory correct as a rule.
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Is it right for the mind to feed into these negative compulsions that is attributed from abuse?
It's hardly negative if it's enjoyed and consentual and isn't harming anyone. O.o
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Just like ppl who r into children, is it okay to fantasize?
A complete strawman arguement. A child is unable to give informed consent.
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To allow your compulsions to take over? I think the answer is obvious.
You're adding your logical fallacies to the discussion as if they were gospel.
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Of course there is a diff between fantasizing about kids and fantasising about torturing adults, but the fact is that both are attributed to negative thoughts and behaviours that is degenerative to the mind and others
I'm wondering when you're going to bring up Hitler to try and make your point?
Anyway, i'm not into BDSM ~ although I do enjoy the odd ass slap and hair pull when the mood is right, but your negative assumptions combined with how you compare apples to oranges compelled me to respond.