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Are you asking me if I think an older woman woman might ever be interested in YOU? If so, then yes. There are all kinds of women in the world. I have no doubt that your sort of "confidence" would be attractive to some women, especially those who haven't grown up enough to know how to pay their own bills, cook, and clean up after themselves. I just don't happen to hang with such women. I also don't hang with men who fit your stereotypical definition. Where do you do your socializing?