Cain, your words surprised me a little. you are American,right? your attitude towards sex is quiet close to Chinese men,but they are even more...i mean , there're still some men who just can't accept that their wives were not virgins at their first nights! just some of them! it's quite unfair to women,coz some of them having such thoughts are not virgins themselves. anyway, i am for your opinion. a woman who has had several sexual partners just can't ... mmm... at least i can't prevent myself from thinking she's a little ... well, it's in my country under my culture and it's just in my opinion.:D