Well, as I mentioned, I was concerned with her drinking. Whenever I tried to bring it up, she told me I was judging her or controlling her. Textbook responses. So, I had a good relationship with her sister and her brother-in-law, and a few months back, I contacted her sister and brother-in-law about it. Not out of malice; out of the hopes that someone would get through to her. I spoke to her brother-in-law and her sister after (they wanted to know more and see if it's gotten any better). I forgot about that.
SO...she just calls me and asks me if I ever contacted her sister and brother-in-law about her drinking and I said, Yes, I did, back in April. She said now she knows why she's been getting pounded by her sister and brother-in-law over drinking and telling them not to judge her. She said her sister showed their Mom the message back then, and she just found out about it from her Mom.
She said to completely delete me from her life, that we could never be, and how can I do that to her and involve her family. I said it was not done during a fight, rather, it was done after being frustrated with not being able to get through to her over her habit, and I needed to help her and not stand by and watch her slowly kill herself.
She was not too keen over it. She asked why I never told her. I said why would I? So you could turn it around?
We said bye....and that was it....