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This is what I'm afraid is the problem. I feel more attraction to her now that I've been through all this.Quote:
Originally Posted by Alexander84 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So, I think the best thing to do is to keep talking to her, but not even come close to trying anything until everything settles down in my own life.
Do you think this is random coincidence?Quote:
Originally Posted by Mathias [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm having a hard time with that one, because I generally believe that everything happens by chance, but really, what are the odds of you both being available at the same time?
How far away is she?
I don't believe in fate, so that's a hard one for me to answer.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Considering our histories, though, it's pretty slim that we'd be single at the same time. But, if anything were to happen with her, I'd want us both to be healed from our past problems.
And she's 756 miles away, according to Mapquest.
How long have you been divorced?Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Can you actually see a future with this guy, or is he just a guy you've built up to be "ideal" in your head?
My divorce was final in January of this year. The marriage was over long before that, sadly.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mathias [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
As far as the old/ new guy goes, yes, I can actually see a future with him. I can think myself inside out about him and convince myself that it's too hard, not worth the trouble, bla, bla, bla, but in the end- he makes me feel good. Steady (unless I haven't heard from him in a week- then I go apeshit, but that's my problem, not his).
He's good for me. I want him.
Interesting, but obviously, it would be a serious problem for either of you to move, so that could create a huge problem. People that make you feel good are very underrated, though...and becoming pretty rare. Is there *any* way this could work?Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by Mathias [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
For me, yes. We could make this work somehow, especially because we're both old enough at this point to know what we'd be missing out on if we didn't. I'm finding myself thinking more about relocating.
For you? I don't know. She's a long way away, and I'm not sure what's going on in your lives- is she in school too?
Well, I was talking about you. :) If it's a possibility, I'd definitely keep exploring it. That's interesting, and cool that you'd even think about that kind of commitment.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
As for me, it's not something I'd do (obviously) right now. She's actually out of school--she's teaching.
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Originally Posted by Mathias [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
somewhat similar to mathias' story...
goes something like this:
the ex in question and i met 4 years ago while doing summer research at a college that neither of us attended - he was a rising senior, i was a rising junior. i remember having great conversations with him that summer. he gave me a feeling that is a hard to describe to this day...i felt comfortable, safe, like i was in the right place when i was with him, like someone actually understood me... but we didn't date. when the summer ended we decided to keep in touch.
he visited me when he was interviewing for med schools near my college. stuff happens during the visit...drama ensues when i find out that he is dating someone back home. he ends up matriculating at a med school that is about 2 hrs away from my college at the time. more drama...we end up dating, but the relationship ended in less than a month... for a lot of reasons that i still don't understand. of course i was hurt tremendously when we broke up but we decided to remain freinds..easier said than done...
we've been talking on and off for the past two years, but the friendship - if it could even be called such - has been tumultuous. bascially, a lot of hurting, a bit of talking, and no physical meeting at all, until very recently.
so this guy, someone that i have known for the past 4 years, during which time i have thought about him for 2 years straight, dated him for a month, and again have been thinking about for the past 2 years, a guy who i have seen for maybe 50 days in total (during the time we dated, we only saw eachother on weekends) is the guy that i can't seem to forget.
Wow, carbon, that sounds kinda harsh. It sounds like a lot of yearning and not a lot of satisfaction.
Any future in it?
Then go get him gurly!....Go go goooQuote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Giga you can never have a guy thats too hard ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Heh heh, I must concur. He's going to be here this month, and by here, I mean...y'know...here. (Points to Hello Kitty).Quote:
Originally Posted by derm [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
lol is that what ye ladies call ye're thing a mi jig?....lol:lol: RALAGHKQuote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by derm [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Only me. Hello Kitty is MINE. And I'm afraid I'm going to have to ask you to explain RALAGHK to me. I'm none too bright, you see.
[QUOTE=Gigabitch;227067]Only me. Hello Kitty is MINE. QUOTE]
oh man that IS the best yet!
Normally it's LOL= laughing out loud as you well know orQuote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
RALMAO=Rooling around laughing my arse off
However there are variations where you gotta guess, such as
RALAGHK=Rooling aroung laughing at Giga's Hello Kitty