lastwish, i know what you speak about, though i dont fully agree.
its really annoying that women who change their partners as often as some guys (the so-called "coolest" guys!), are considered to be sluts. all women should have the right to do the same things as men, but still, i think women should not always "use" this right. we should be "allowed to", but we should often voluntarily abstain.
i dont really know why, i just feel so. perhaps because things that we can get too easy, are not so valuable for us, so giving yourself too easy would result in making yourself valueless... but thats just what my heart says, my mind says: go ahead and have your pleasure, i wish you good luck!!! (and i will envy you...)
finding the perfect partner is really very difficult if not impossible.
"f*ck like an animal, eat like a gentleman, not the other way round" - i think i read it somewhere here in the forums. its very hard to find a man who can behave like this. so maybe the best solution would be to have a gentleman husband as a perfect family father, plus a wild lover to get the best satisfaction. but of course that would be very unfair to the husband... hell, life is not easy...
its a bit easier when you are young and single, and dont want to get by all means a serious boyfriend, then you may have your fun... (actually, in a way this is what im doing right now, only with a child to be responsible for, i have to be careful, and do it in secret. i have only one lover, but this relation is much more exciting and satisfying than years of my marriage...)
if i could start my life again, im sure i would much more hunt for pleasure and fun before marriage...