So any man who isn't drenched in testosterone is effiminate... is that what you're alluding to? Then I guess by your own definition you are effiminate. See how that doesn't play out accurately? I doubt I would ever see you, or the majority of men as effiminate, since there is more to masculinity than just over-developed secondary sexual characteristics.
You have self-esteem issues... that's why you are not good with girls. Those are issues that have little to nothing to do with women --- it has more to do with you. When you say "the reason I have trouble with girls is because I am shit" then that would lead one to believe it does have "to do with self loathing crap" because an individual who doesn't like themselves would refer to themselves in a very negative way.
You still loathe women, that is why you spend so much of your time trying to belittle or one-up the women here... and quite possibly in real life too. Reflect over your actions and see if they actually agree with what you believe you are doing. I suspect there is an incongruity between the two. ;)
BoredGeorge I could care less about the gender wars... they always end in a draw. Equal advantages and equal disadvantages. Equal pain on both sides from the harsh realities of the dating game. How long do you want to keep a pointless struggle going? How many years do you want to sacrifice?
Wouldn't it be more beneficial to yourself if you'd just accept that there are bad people in every category you can think of and if you want to find happiness in this world, you will have to focus on the good in life -- starting with the good qualities in yourself.
