Originally Posted by
IndiReloaded
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The whole situation, actually. Him and you.
But, since you asked: Yes, I think you are making a stupid mistake of the sort that typical young females do. His motives are wrong, he sounds stupid too but not so much he can't emotionally manipulate you. Its what I said about a guy who need to be told to use a seatbelt for his own kids. You gave him an external motivator in the form of an ultimatum and got a response, but not when he was challenged to find an internal motivator. More than that, based on your posts, he still doesn't get it.
Now, if you had posted something along the lines of "LOL, well, I got the response I was looking for and he came begging back with a box of condoms. He still doesn't get it, but I think I'll keep him around for a bit longer b/c this pool boy is good in the sack." (he's not even that, you said) OR "Well, he still doesn't get it, so I'm going to send this fish back to the pond to grow up a bit more.", I think I'd think you had a better grasp of what is really happening.
So, I can only conclude this is some lonely female response. That willingness to overlook significant flaws in a partner b/c they don't really have the strength to dump them and find better. You started off well, but you couldn't follow through.
Again, this^ only b/c you asked. Careful what you ask for.