Look at the big picture my friend
Here's a good way to see whether a girl/woman is ready to handle a serious relationship -- ask her about her plans for the future.
I've studied women and relationships long enough to know that women who think about the future -- and make plans to meet the goals she sets for herself -- are the ones who can make a relationship work.
Most women we meet out there these days "live in the moment." They don't believe in delayed gratification, and sort of operate on the maxim of "enjoy life now, think later." Some may lack in the ability to plan for the future and that’s when a man has to man up and ensure that the thinking and planning is done efficiently. So just living in this moment and think later does not cut in love and relationships.
But, as with most things in a relationship, this rule goes both ways.
Do YOU think of the future? Do YOU set goals for yourself? Do YOU go out of your way, even putting instant gratification aside, to make sure you achieve those goals?
If you don't think of the future, and if you don't look at the big picture, believe me -- you're better off NOT getting into a serious relationship just yet.
Do not be hasty in your decision making process. If you are having problems with just one element “not having sex” than ensure you solve this problem in a systematic way.
Whenever there’s a problem there’s always a solution to it. Just be patient and solve the problem or else...
You're simply not ready!
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