It would be nice if you grew up and actually contributed something of value once in a while to someone other than your "crew", misombra. That's the jist of that comment you quoted. I'm happily married I don't solicit that kind of thing from other men (if you'll notice, I didn't even comment on his comment).
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Wakeup: you are still a newbie here. Miso (like me, btw) has been posting here since ~ 2004. She has given far more useful advice than you know. You stuck your e-nose in on a response that wasn't actually for you. I doubt your marriage is all that great--if I were your husband I'd probably run every time you mention "co-dependency". You are a one-track recording and an irritating one at that.
Your presence here is tolerated b/c you seem to relate to a certain class of posters (redneck ones). There are just as many that find you very irritating. I think I mentioned this before. Stick to what you are good at, enjoy the forum and otherwise avoid telling the regs what to do. It won't go well for you.