I told you I'm not looking to fight. And I swear it's not any in-laws. In-laws have surprisingly been SO welcoming and happy with me. On the contrary to my appearance across a computer screen, I assure you I treat him like gold. There is many reasons for this, he is the first man who has made me feel this good about myself and I do everything I can to return the favor. His family and most of his friends have whole-heartfelt accepted me with him and have many times stated that they have never seen him so happy. Only one of these people has ever asked me flat out if I would stay forever and they believed me when I said yes. The reason I took this topic as far as a forum discussion however, was because of his childhood friend who approached me the other day and told me terrible things. He said he would never trust me and he figured I would screw this man up even worse than when his wife left him. I have been rather distraught about it and not sure how to handle it. But my man says his friend is simply testing me.