Well, a caffeinated coffee will immediately recognize decaf on your breath...so beware... And, avoid using cream...the coffees can always smell cream. I suggest a cream substitute...harder to detect. I hope that you haven't given either of them a rim job...a coffee cup rim job, that is. If you have, I would oink ...but these days, caveat emptor.... LOL
Have not slept with either of them. The goal here was to find a compatible person...not to add another notch to the gunbelt. In fact you'd be proud of me, us. The woman I am with now let me get to third base and made homeplate an option. I started to go there, but then said: "Do you want to wait? I would like to." She said she wanted to wait, too.