They don't try to better themselves, that's the thing. They just complain about the world and then buy themselves presents to make themselves feel better. Like two of my exs, they didn't actually try to resolve their issues they just complained about them and encouraged others to feel sorry for them for all of their "suffering".Quote:
Originally Posted by CocoChanel [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Let me tell you about the "suffering" of one of my exs
- She earned 65K a year
- She lived with her parents without paying anything
- Her parents cooked for her, cleaned for her and treated her like a princess for which she yelled at them and didn't respect them at all
- She always complained how she never had nay money (What?)
- She always complained about how she can't find herself or her place in the world
- She couldn't find common language with people and she DEMANDED to be accepted by others even though she couldn't accept them
- She talked about a bleak future she sees for herself
- Everything new was scary, suspicious and a chore
She is just one of a dozen western girls that I've known who "suffers" in the similar conditions
Now contrast that to a girl I've been with from a traditional culture
- Lives by herself without any support systems (family is back home)
- Gets limited amount of money and is forced to ration her resources
- Doesn't know many people, but makes new friends quickly because she manages to find common language with them quite easily
- Calm, collected, intelligent and always accepting of new circumstances
- High respect for her parents and families in general
- Has intuitive understanding of the world around her and accepts her station and place in the world
- Treats people with respect even if they don't deserve it and assumes the best about people until proven otherwise
- Everything new is a source of excitement, interest and exploration
And she is one of many traditional girls who behave in this manner. So what do you do when you continuously see people fill the same criteria. You start to favour one group over the other.