Originally Posted by
IndiReloaded
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Well, thinking back to GrkScorp & Mish's comments, there seems to be some benefit to the 'letting her miss you more than you do' attitude. For some mindsets, anyway.
At least that attitude will allow you to get your own stuff (school, etc) under control, meantime. I definitely wouldn't leave the timeframe for discussion open-ended, tho, if I were you. You're not her doormat, to be picked up & dusted off only when she's ready to wipe her feet on you.