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I believe that happiness is energy, if my energy is affected by anything negative then i emit negative energy. Which is not beneficial for me or anyone around me. Basically I have a philosophy that if there's nothing positive to say, please keep it to yourself. Of course I do listen to my friends complain. And only rarely I allow myself to vent or blow up.Quote:
Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
OK, well I was only saying.....!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by RdHrshyKss [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Indeed she may not know, but then she may and not feel a need to be sharing her innermost thoughts and fears with her friend.
I know that when it was happening to me, the last thing I did was rush around informing all of my friends that I thought my husband was cheating. I kept it to myself. Yeah...I know not everyone is like me.
While we can be aware our partners may be cheating, we are also at same time in denial that would ever cheat on us and we tend to brush these things aside and to the back of our minds. We tend to think we are imagining it all....
But yeah, she might suspect, she may not.....nobody knows for sure, only Ruth. And whether people here would choose to tell her or not, rests with the individual and their reasons/concerns for telling her/not telling her.
I told my best friend when i found out his wife was cheating. At first i wasnt sure, but decided that he needed to know and make his own choices. There was no way i would not tell a friend just at the risk of falling out over it. I think it should be the same for man or woman, kids or no kids- your friend needs to know to make her own decision on what she will do.
is there even a Ruth?
exactly!!!...Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
God knows....I saw a Ruth mentioned and just assumed there was a Ruth....lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Sonrisa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i mean someone who posts something, and never makes a reappearance.Quote:
Originally Posted by xxazurexx [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I was thinking exact same and when I was reading earlier.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sonrisa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
They make these threads, but never return for the advice....I wonder why that is?
trolls, could be one of the bannedQuote:
Originally Posted by xxazurexx [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I would like to nominate Coco for Queen of the Banned (reference Queen of the Damned)
Coco and Neo for the Banned and the Beautiful
still doesn't give a reason to NOT tell her. like i said, if she knows, then she knows...if ruth chooses to think "oh well she probably already knows" when she doesn't, then she is doing her friend a disservice.
the person who posted this thread is "ruthpurple" so i've been referring to her as ruth...
Yeah well I explained my reasons for not telling.....and having born the brunt of the consequences and in choosing to reveal all....Quote:
Originally Posted by RdHrshyKss [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Fat lot of good it did me eh?...uhm lol
They never seem to come back though. I've noticed that a few times on here where people will post, a storm brews because it's a subject where people will agree and disagree and opinion clashes strongly....and the OP never returns. Bit odd don't you think?Quote:
Originally Posted by RdHrshyKss [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
no sense of humor, huh?Quote:
Originally Posted by RdHrshyKss [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]