I'm with doppel on this one. Why going out/ having a relationship blah blah, with someone YOU're not fully attracted to? And as a bonus, you're even ready to admit that; something like "I'm with this girl, she's not very attractive, but I like other things about her and I love her, because looks aren't important". I believe that's such an insult.
thundersw - what's up with that theory? *laughs and rolls on her tummy* Btw, as a lady who loves men, I'm definitely, visually, attracted by how women look as well.
This post reminded me of a lady friend that doesn't have (naturally) very nice features, but who invests (and I'm not talking only about money) a lot in herself. She's now following some professional make-up classes, she always makes sure she's wearing the perfect make-up, perfect colors, suitable hair-do and clothes. There's a huge difference between how she looked 2 years ago, and now.