I'm talking about several different guys! Why is that so hard for you to grasp? Let me explain it for you:
Quote #1: I was referring to my 22-year-old boyfriend, who I never had sex with. He told me about the times he had sex with OTHER GIRLS in his past, and he did not use lube with them even though they were in pain because they were virgins. He should have used lube for them.
Quote #2: I was referring to my 27-year-old boyfriend, who is the only person I've ever had sex with. I think it's a good thing that we used lube when we had sex, and I appreciated the fact that he was considerate enough to ask if I wanted it. I don't think using lube is an indication of bad sex. Sex with him was incredible; I'm not upset that we used lube.
Quote #3: Physical intimacy doesn't always include sex. I've had 3 boyfriends in my life. Two of them lacked skills (I never had sex with them; they lacked skills that were unrelated to sex), one of them did not.
Quote #4: Again, I was referring to my 27-year-old boyfriend, the one I had sex with. His skills were just fine. The other 2 boyfriends before him are the ones who had problems.
Do you understand now?