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Don't ask her if you can meet her again, tell her you'll be on skype again at such and such a time and ask her to meet you on skype then. Don't say can I skype again soon.
Play it by ear when you ask her to meet up. If it's going well then make it sooner rather then later. i'd not ask after one skype in though. I think I'd be too soon if it was me.
It's going well so far. Take it one contact at a time and no expectations or investing emotionally too soon.
So 2-3 Skypes then ask for a meet? I thought it might be soon but what the hell do I know about girls..I'm not even sweating about a possible meet. It sucks that I just KNOW I'd be interesting in person for all these girls on the site to meet with, but the messages and phone calls are backbreakers..
No not 2 - 3 skypes in. Play it by ear and if she's keen and appears to be into you then ask her at 2 or 3. If you're having a hard time reading her interest then take a few more but definately ask to meet. Best to get a yes or no so you don't waste months thinking that eventually you'll meet but in reality she has no intentions of ever doing that.
Well, if I'm "playing it by ear" and I am almost sure I'll have to ask for another Skype. How do I ask for that to end a conversation?
I told you already in post no. 76 :)
Cool beans! Thanks, Wakeup.
Right oh, sport. Just be chillin :)
God, this one had better pan out. Now I don't have a sense of entitlement..but I think I am owed this one.
Ask her at your next skype. Either there is chemistry or not. Meet asap otherwise she is just playing you.
If you need poetry you can always try 'roses are red, lemons are sour... open your legs and give me an hour' :D
...ohh...my....lord....lol...
Man, I suck with messages. How does one be INTERESTING with a first message?!
OK, IMPORTANT question: how do I ask for a phone number (another girl)? I started messaging her last night and our conversation is not of the short reply sort. I don't want to lose her interest because she is only here for the summer so I figure the time is very limited to advance.
Also, the girl I met after not seeing for a long time...she is SEEING SOMEONE. Not a relationship, evidently. Also, he's moving this summer for a job. WHAT DO I DO?!
"Seeing someone" She's telling you that she's seeing someone and he's leaving this summer for a job. :)
Did she use the words "Not a relationship" or is that your interpretations of the above?
As for girl only here for the summer: "you're only here for a short while, would it be okay if I phoned you so that we can chat and perhaps see if we connect enough for me to keep you company while you're here?"
What's happening with Miss Skype?
(and good on you for keeping yurself bizzzy, dude)
She actually said she was seeing someone but she didn't know where they stand. She said she didn't think they were in a relationship since they weren't official at any point in the months she's seen him...
Good idea with here-for-the-summer girl. She rated my profile highly which is why I thought to message her to begin with..
Skype is tomorrow. I am headed right back out to hike with a group very very soon.
*two thumbs up* to you.
Your old friend.. keep chatting and ask her to meet up for a Bud Light or something. If she wants to go with you she will. if she doesn't, she'll use the "I'm seeing someone" or some other excuse. No big deal if she does, right? Right!