Originally Posted by
IndiReloaded
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I do wish you well but, as I said, this story is as old as the hills. People get the respect they demand from others. It won't end well unless you can make her see the problem with what she is doing. Perhaps that is your purpose being together. If I were you, though, at your age I would spend your energy on someone who doesn't need rescuing. You sound to me to have more than a touch of Shining Knight syndrome and that never ends well. If/when she does wakeup, she won't want you anymore b/c you will have seen her at her worst. If you truly love her, you would be best to break up with her and say you won't standby while she treats herself like this. Say you have standards and that she should call you when she gets herself cleaned up:
http://www.loveforum.net/threads/26633-Description-of-the-Shining-Knight-Syndrome