I said it more than once (twice to be precise) because I wanted to make it clear to the readers from the beginning that if we have relationship problems, it's not because the sex isn't good, for both of us. Also, it is relevant for the comparison with the unhealthy sex life he had with his ex. I've read many threads in which a woman talks about her relationship problems, and the men responding always ask if the sex is good or not. After all, it is an important part of a relationship, especially for men, so I just wanted to get it out of the way. I hope it didn't sound as CAM's constant boasting sounds..!
Anyway, I don't get why you guys (men) think that if a woman dumps you it has to have something to do with the sex. Most of the times it's because of emotional problems. Good or bad sex, to a woman, has mostly to do with the emotional connection during sex, not the "being good lovers" stuff. A guy can be very capable in bed, but unwilling, or incapable, to share deep intimacy or emotional connection. It may feel physically good, but as soon as it's over it was no more than using a sex toy or something. Not good sex for a woman (unless it's a FWB situation or a one night stand or something)! On the other hand, inexperience can even be sweet and lovely, as long as there is a sincere effort to please and a strong emotional bond (I speak from experience). (I am not referring to CAM, it's a general observation).