Originally Posted by
IndiReloaded
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Its what I said: if you are truly okay with casual sex, then no problem. But few women truly are. Not younger women, anyway. Most are manipulated into believing they can barter love for sex and lots of men take advantage of that. Fortunately, not all. Those men are undervalued, but usually because they don't extend their philosophy far enough: they should be more open about their superiority, rather than giving up. Not everyone is smart enough to recognize a Rosetta stone, but most are smart enough to value it once they finally realize what it is.
Its pretty clear to me that men don't respect women who have casual sex. Not to marry and raise their children. Really, Neo and CB I call BS on you guys: would you really ever marry a woman who has slept with more partners than you? I doubt it.
But, here's a newsflash guys: there are women out there who don't respect guys who do this either. In my case, I would have concerns about their ability to participate in a mutually satisfying partnership. Casual sex, or even serial monogamy, is a repeating pattern. After a few experiences, there is very little new learned about partnerships, or oneself. Its like getting stuck in a rut where you keep repeating the same mistakes, just with different people. No growth.
For some people, I suppose there is a certain comfort in that. Its easy. Once problems arise and you begin to be challenged, just dump your partner for someone new who won't make you acutely aware of your growing pains. Personally, it reminds me of being stuck in perpetual adolescence. How very boring.
Boys, girls, men, women. Its just a matter of taste, really.