I do agree with this. I'm not sure if you are specifically doing this, pc, but I'll admit I too have sometimes been a little confused by which way you fall on this spectrum. Because sometimes in the past you've told us some of your relationships have ended because the women thought you talked about sex TOO MUCH... and now it seems like some of them are ending because they think you don't seem interested in sex enough. So, not sure if you've taken a complete 180 or exactly what is the case....Quote:
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However, I will definitely agree that if you are going out of your way to seduce women and ACT all interested....yet then it never leads to sex, that can very well have a lot of the consequences Hooo is talking about. I'm not sure if that maybe IS what you are doing or not. Just dating somebody isn't (at least in my view) the same thing as actively seducing them. You can be dating and both feel you are not yet ready for sex. More so, I think of seducing to mean you are actively doing or saying things that give the impression you are trying to get things to lean towards sex. So, if you ARE giving that impression and yet aren't ready to actually have sex yet, that certainly CAN confuse women (confuse anybody really) to the point where they may move on.
Again, I don't know if that is what you are doing, but it is definitely interesting speculation. It may be one thing to consider if that maybe helps you have better success in getting the kind of relationship you want.