My bf had a problem with me salsa-ing with other men. He knew from the get go dancing is my first love, but he never said anything for or against my hobby- until he saw it.
He came with me one night to my salsa club, and there I dance with anyone who asks and I get asked a lot. He came, he saw, he didn't like. The spinning, the holding, the dipping, the hips... he was jealous that these men got to touch me and move me like that. He didn't like that he couldn't do the same.
We talked about it he got it all off his chest. I told him that there are a few exceptions to my dance with anyone rule. If I know he's just being pervy to look down my shirt I say no. I assure him that I'm dancing becasue I enjoy it not so that the "hot latin lover" over there gets to twirl me around.
I told him he's by far my favorite partner despite him now knowing a step in the right direction.
In conclusion: he doesn't love dancing, and really not salsa but he lets me enjoy and will participate from time to time. However, in the club he likes getting down with his hot gf (as he puts it). So I'm happy here!