You notice it's mostly the chickie-poos that are finding your thread to be nothing but attention seeking, Jane? That's because we can aren't dazzled by your look. We see that you are actually pretty by societies standards and are just sick of women like yourself (and men as well) who need to hear it all the time while men actually keep telling you what you phish for. We see through it all.
Now, if you're really thinking that you're ugly, then I suggest you go to a good stylist and ask for her help, get you look honed. Then get yourself a life coach so that you learn to stop whining about yourself. It's annoying and very unattractive. We've been telling YC that for ages now. Your whine is ugly, you are not.