HUH? I think you are twisting my reasoning a bit there.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
HUH? I think you are twisting my reasoning a bit there.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Trem: I think you're naive.. I say that with love.
And you said I'm not Hugh Hefner. LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Oh? My reasoning is logical when applied to this:Quote:
HUH? I think you are twisting my reasoning a bit there.
You sound like you've been raised On DD and Mistry to be honest.Quote:
Fortunately for me I also enjoy the freedom of singlehood as it allows me to pursue my interests wholeheartedly so I'm not too concern about relationships really, but if the odd chance I meet the right girl then of course that would be awesome.
No, I think I am probably completely aware of how men work, what they want, and profoundly unhappy about it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I don't blame them for misunderstanding me. Perception is only a reflection of the self and it's difficult to see it through another's view deeply when the concept may be quite foreign to them.Quote:
Originally Posted by tremolo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Rather condenscending.. No?Quote:
Originally Posted by Bonfire [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You have a misconception about men that torments you. Try to trust the wonderfulness of you more.Quote:
No, I think I am probably completely aware of how men work, what they want, and profoundly unhappy about it.
Not too familiar with DD and Mistry. I'm more of Nietzsche and Thoreau. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
hahha... touche. Same church different pew.
Tell me is this your fav Nietzsche quote:Quote:
Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent.
That's just the limitation in communication through verbal means. Hence why I'm seeing these crazy idea of Bonfire's mindset with women. I find them comical though. lol But I'm just trying my best to explain it's not accurate although I can't fault you guys for forming such views.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well I guess there is another alternative you could try.......Quote:
Originally Posted by tremolo [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I'm with you, I've been happily unmarried for over 21 years, and had no desire for kids......but in Canada the laws are different.....he can take half my shit and screw me over large, I would lose my house.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bonfire [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I have a higher sex drive than all my ex's and my now boyfriend. I want sex all the time. I don't feel the need to watch porn when I'm in a relationship and I don't look at other men in a sexual way. I do masterbate if my bf hasn't touched me in a very very long time like maybe 2-3 weeks.Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I understand men are more visual but it doesn't stop it from hurting. I found him masterbating over porn last monday and now I'm too scared to leave him on his own if I catch him doing it again. Or if I am away from him it is constantly in my brain.
I am insecure but dont think I would be if I didnt know what he looked at. I've talked to him about all of this but it probably wont make any difference and I have to except that men are all like this. Well not all but a high percentage are.
I have to go to counselling because what I feel is apparently wrong.
We also dont have sex as much as Id like and it is making my insecurities worse. Ive lost over 30lbs for what? For him just to ignore my needs. I intiate sex but want him to do it like he used to.
"It's easier to put on slippers than to carpet the whole world." --Al Franken
I sympathize with all of this.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katmeow85 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I talk to my therapist about these things, but I don't agree that what you're feeling is wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katmeow85 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I feel the same as you on this as well. When my second to last boyfriend told me I was so unattractive he had to fantasize about other women when we were together, I lost 25 pounds, and now I work out at the gym 15 hours a week. Has it made any noticeable difference in my sex life? No. Although my last boyfriend claimed he was perfectly satisfied with me and wouldn't change a thing about our sex life, he wanted sex much less than me and talked often about strippers, porn stars, and slutty celebrities, as if they were something to be desired and emulated.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katmeow85 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You'd think that our efforts would get us somewhere, but apparently not.