Sugar's bad for you, dude. Seriously bad for you.
'course, so is smoking and drinking, and I do both. Take from this what you will.
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Sugar's bad for you, dude. Seriously bad for you.
'course, so is smoking and drinking, and I do both. Take from this what you will.
Just don't go confusing sex and love. B/c this is new to you, you are apt to confuse the two. Treat her like an interesting but not very compelling beach book. Saavy?
Hold on to your heart, no matter how awesome she seems. She is leaving before you start. That said, I have heard of people getting back together years later, b/c they kept it light at the time. Beware - getting clingy and needy will drive her away forever. Trust me on this: been there, done that one too. My ex (a few ago, not the last one) is a lawyer. Never married; in my part of the world even. But I never forgot how clingy he got at the end. It leaves an impression, LR.
Ohhhhhhhhhhh what kind?
Well, before I message her, I just wanted to ask: How do I also include something re: her leaving? Obviously that's important to her and it would be good to include something about it in my response, besides the invite?
Whoa whoa whoa...lol. Let's not get ahead of myself here; this might not even lead to sex, in fact, not likely. I haven't yet asked if she would still just like to go out and have fun.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Who cares about her leaving....just ask her out....you are getting too far ahead of yourself. Talk about it on the date silly.
Lol, yeah I am planning on that. But in my message doing so, I still want to include her, as in, show that I really read the message and think it's awesome that she's going abroad to study for a few months. Question is; HOW?
"That's really cool that you are going abroad to study. I'm totally down with just hanging and having fun while you're here. Would you like to meet over coffee?" (or whatever, blah blah blah).
You're still overthinking it. Just DO IT.
Maybe I'm underthinking it. Maybe my mind isn't wired to talk to girls, except in platonic or Friend Zone'ing manners...Maybe if I slap myself real good or fall while ice-skating one day it'll shuffle the synapses in my mind to work better when dealing with girls.
But yeah, I'll re-phrase that (hopefully not disastrously) so I can be sure you're not ghost-writing.
Synapses grow connections while doing new activities. FACT
To get better at it, you need to practice it.
LR you better not f uck this one up!
Pressure? Oh crap, I'm going to **** up for sure now. Besides, reading her profile...she's a SORORITY chick! Maybe I should hope she doesn't accept; otherwise, she might expect me to be loud, rambunctious and friendly with every damn person, a good dancer, an uber wit and a complete yuppie! I'm none of those things!
Are you asking me or LR a question, S?Quote:
Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Ya. Have you noticed I'm much less of a miserable, stuckup bitch now that I'm away from my ex?? ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Wakeup [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Who cares, LR? Sororities are stupid anyway (you know I went to school in the states, right?). Pretend she's a member of a benign, if irritating, religious cult and just ignore that aspect of her bad judgement for now.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
:D
Actually, I had no idea you went to school here.