Let's look at it from this angle then, the few gal pals I have I absolutely adore. Why on Earth would I want to hook them up with a guy that can not be friends with the opposite sex unless he is regularly getting his dick wet? I know sex is a major motivator and a bloody enjoyable part of being alive, but if my guy friends can't handle their own horniness that is there problem not mine, and I hate the implication that it is my problem because the guy finds me attractive and can't enjoy my company without that attraction becoming an issue.
On the other hand, if a genuinely nice guy friend was looking for a relationship with an awesome chick, yes I would happily set them up with a friend. I understand that it's not what you know, it's who you know and I choose not to get to know any guy that is going to try and dump his sexual issues at my door.