"40 days" turned real! An experiment

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02-09-10, 12:15 PM
irrelevant_89

"40 days" turned real! An experiment

Hi guys, it's been a long time since I've last been here, mainly because of my recent moving to Canada.

I've had a good time here so far, but there is one thing: now I live in an apartment with two other people, and even though I have a fair share of alone time and a room for myself, I'm not very at ease with the idea of masturbating here. Silly, I know.

I used to do it everyday. More than once, often. So, after a few days without fapping, I decided to make an experiment. Remember the movie "40 days"? If you don't, the guy makes a bet that he can go for 40 days without fapping or any other kind of sexual contact. I'm still single, so I decided to go for that. To see if I can do it, and what are the pyhsical/psychological consequences. And to go for the EPIC ORGASM in the end. :P

Right now, I'm halfway through, day 20. So my goal is to make it to September 21st.

It's actually much easier than I thought. I do get boners fairly easily, and I imagine that if I were to fap right now, I'd last like 10 seconds, but physically the consequences are far from being insurmountable. Psychologically it might be more difficult, because my already present feelings of loneliness are amplified by an increased sex drive, and I find myself wasting too much time thinking about girls and such.

So yeah. I just posted this for you guys to give me some support to get to 9/21 (lol) and maybe share your own experiences of masturbation deprivation. (lol alliteration).
02-09-10, 12:24 PM
vashti

I wish you good luck, but have you ever heard of "use it or lose it"?
02-09-10, 12:30 PM
doppelgaenger

I think that if I didn't ejaculate for 40 days, I would be a walking cumbomb, and just walking around, the friction of my pants would probably give me an orgasm.
03-09-10, 10:09 AM
irrelevant_89

Hahaha, I expected these comments. No I'm not worried about losing it, actually these now 21 days have shown me that it's not that big a deal!

The only thing that might keep me from success is if I accidentally cum during sleep. I've never had that in my life; but this situation might trigger it.
07-09-10, 01:24 PM
JeyGant

I got an idea.
I whack it everyday as well since i was 14.
I want to get a girlfriend, then not have any sex acts for 40 days.
I think i could do it.
But i wish you luck and let us know how it goes lol
No homo
07-09-10, 03:36 PM
kitkitkitty

fap is a horrible word.
07-09-10, 09:18 PM
VincenzoG91

Quote:

Originally Posted by kitkitkitty [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

fap is a horrible word.

It's a good example of onomatopoeia.
07-09-10, 11:36 PM
kitkitkitty

Quote:

Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

It's a good example of onomatopoeia.

true, but urghhhh
08-09-10, 10:38 AM
irrelevant_89

26 days now, that means 2 weeks to go...

still not that hard. Although, I'm getting some romps of bad humor now. My being single is really getting to me. Is it really that hard to find a girl?

In related news, I saw the most beautiful girl in years today. Seriously, my jaw dropped. Unfortunately, she's way out of my league too.
10-09-10, 07:18 PM
chairman55

I did that once... I actually went for 90 days without it! It was really tough the first few weeks but then I just got used to it. I was really surprised that there weren't any nightime emissions. As for the first time after that, I got back together with an ex and it was the best sex I've ever had!
12-09-10, 02:42 PM
febling

I once went 45 days in high school. Quite a challenge.
12-09-10, 04:41 PM
kitkitkitty

actually i went along with the whole 40 days, 40 nights no masturbation thing with a few guy mates for lent (we went to a catholic school). needless to say that i won and they were too randy to go all the way :D
12-09-10, 05:08 PM
febling

It literally hurts when you finally do it. My dick hurt a few minutes after I finally let loose.
13-09-10, 05:33 AM
irrelevant_89

^ let's see. I'm interested in seeing how it goes.

31 days, nothing new. Honestly I thought it would be harder.
24-09-10, 10:56 AM
irrelevant_89

Well, it's over, 40 days and the abstinence is finally broken. No cumbomb, nothing really intense, just business as usual.

So I guess the myth the "40 days" movie promoted is busted. It doesn't really make a difference if you fap or not.
24-09-10, 12:29 PM
Spoonandfork

Quote:

Originally Posted by irrelevant_89 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Well, it's over, 40 days and the abstinence is finally broken. No cumbomb, nothing really intense, just business as usual.

So I guess the myth the "40 days" movie promoted is busted. It doesn't really make a difference if you fap or not.

just so you know, testosterone levels peak after 7 days of abstinence and then drop significantly after that. Congrats on going 40 days without :)