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I don't mean just physical beauty. What aspects of her physique make an attractive girl? And, most importantly, what aspects of her personality and behavior?
Do you prefer quiet girls, or outspoken ones? Ambitious, or calm? Worried about looks, or carefree? Funny, or serious? Smart and studious, or wild? In what kinds of makeup/clothing do you like to see a girl?
Thanks!
-PK.
The majority will like outspoken. I don't; that means they're going to be vain, want to party all the goddamn time and get drunk and make asses of themselves. Or start some pseudo-charity club that actually has consequences opposite of their intent, like donating a turkey to poor families who subsequently resent being made pity-cases and hate the living hell out of the rest of society afterwards.
I like quiet girls because they're misunderstood. Not to mention, talk is usually pretty cheap. The best relationships can perhaps be without pointless words and phrases being expressed. I think separating ambitious and calm into mutually exclusive traits is somewhat erroneous; one can be ambitious and calm simultaneously, I think.
Smart and studious is best for me, sexually wild would be the only real kind of wild ideal to me.
Now I am obviously pretty different in tastes. However, I know guys' minds being a guy myself: I could tell you everything guys look for.
Well, I resent that. I'm an outspoken girl, yet I would never want to party all the time. I don't like parties, they scare me; I've never touched alcohol and don't plan to; and I don't believe I make an ass of myself. ;) I would much rather occasionally go fishing, horseback riding or swimming, or ride racehorses, LOL! And as to creating charities, I'm the kind of girl who would be far more likely to donate to the WWF than create my own charitable organization, unless perhaps it were a no-kill animal shelter. XD
Still, I can totally see what you mean!
Kiara, Love's Reject is bitter and twisted. Just ignore him.
Twisted, maybe. In a good sense. Like the creators of South Park or Ren & Stimpy. Bitter? No. Insightful and ever the expert, yes!
I like loud girls who say what they think even when its >_<. Girls who dont wana be everyone friend but have something special unique about them. I beleive that face tells about character and smile(a true open smile) can tell about girls heart. You can tell by the smile if dreams are living in her heart. This is the strongest smile. That kinda smile can steal a guys heart.
Smile can tell if girl is heartbroken too. It will be smile with bad hiden pain or just a smile who looks like made of plastic.
Basicaly if girl is healty, optimistic, full with vitality, thinking with her own brains and have a dream or target in her life then everything else follows. The rest is just 10%
I think the most that counts in a girl is Smarts,Funny,Cute,And Quiet but not Too quiet.
The outdoors kind of girl,Maybe?Based that 3 guys like me,Im just posting my personality and other stuff.
When I see the popular chrowd I think 'The Only Effing Reason they're popluar is because they have Self-Esteem meter up to Full!!' because In reality,They arent pretty,Nice,much less smart.Yet,Alot of guys Like her.Her name is Caitlyn and here is her personality:
Dumb,Stuck Up,Fairly Ugly,And LOUD.
Smarts and Being Funny are two big things you should look for in a girl.Cutness,Also,But dont turn down girls cuz they dont have Brunette hair or they dont have Hazel Eyes.Or Because of the shirt they r wearing says If Your Happy and you know it,Slap your freind! wich is AKA my fav shirt.No girl is perfect,But I think i've made my point.
Quiet vs outspoken: Either is fine if not taken to an extreme. Quiet is fine so long as you're not so inhibited that you hide away in your shell never to come out. Outspoken is fine so long as you're not in my face and douchey.Quote:
Originally Posted by Princess Kiara [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Ambitious vs. calm: False dichotomy here, plenty of people are both ambitious AND calm.
Worried about looks vs. Carefree: Either is fine if not taken to an extreme. Worried about looks is fine as long as you're not always asking me if you look fat and fishing for compliments about your beauty. Carefree is fine as long as you put SOME effort into yourself.
Funny or serious: Funny, no brainer here. Some guys may be different but I can't see myself with a girl that doesn't have a sense of humor.
Smart and studious or wild: Another false dichotomy, a degree of both is appreciated.
Makeup: Depends on the girl, whatever highlights her features, brings out her eyes, etc.
Clothes: Meh, they all look the same when they're in tatters and strewn about my bedroom floor anyway.
Girl who has dignity, but not pride - pride is selfish and it has no place with love. Who is thoughtful and seeks the meaning of life with the person she loves. One who is sensitive and strong in her love. One who is delicate and feminine.
A lot of people underestimate girls who are quiet, many of them can be even more fun then the party girls, it's just that they show that side of them to someone who can connect with them on a different level.
lol we have had threads like this a zillion times. look through the search
the only thing that makes a girl attractive is that shes nice. when girls ask me do you have a type, from now i just say yh, a nice girl is my type
EVERY guy likes blondes; so blondes get free passes to be bitches. That explains why most blondes are disgusting human beings. Most guys like dumb girls because they want to feel intellectually superior and kind of have that father figure-type importance..These days, most guys like when girls act kinda like dykes; they want their girls to be girls in the sack, and just another of the guys when she's with him and his friends. Funny trends these days..
There needs be a healthy balance of all of these things. In other words, a little bit of everything.Quote:
Originally Posted by Princess Kiara [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I know. And that's so stupid! Dumbing yourself down is, in the words of Danica McKellar, like "uglying yourself up" in ways such as putting brown eyeshadow under your eyes to look like dark circles before going to school. And I completely agree with her! I may not be a genius, but I'm smart, and I know it and am not afraid to hide it. I like school, I love learning. I also don't hide this, though I try not to sound like I'm bragging, either. Like Irene Adler said in "A Scandal in Belgravia", "smart is the new sexy" (I would replace the "sexy" with "AWESOME"). I would never, ever consider a guy who liked me to act dumb when I'm not, just so he can feel superior to me.Quote:
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You really do take unpleasantness to the extreme, don't you. No wonder you can't find a girl.Quote:
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Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong.Quote:
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I don't like blondes. Never have. I've dated a few, but never really cared for the "washed out" look. I like a bit of color in my women. Ironically, my wife's hair is completely white (went grey in HS), and she's so pale she's almost translucent. Gets burns from 100W bulbs. Totally not type, color-wise.
Me on the other hand, my Sicilian and Native American blood shows. I'm brown. Bet we look kind of comical together.
Oh, and my wife says she didn't get the girl rule book. She doesn't act "feminine", but she is VERY female.
Oops, I meant, nearly every guy likes blondes.
Better, but still too broad.
You really need to quit with the generalizations.
Who cares what guys like. Changing yourself so that guys or a certain guy will like you is lame. I just be my authentic self and guys still like me (not all but there is quite a handful who do). Express yourself to the fullest, be proud of who you are, and do what you want.
Yeah, what ^ she said. My little truism "Don't be yourself; be who they want you to be" only applies to girls. Us guys like girls who are themselves.
Are you stoned, stupid, or really just a troll?
All of the above?Quote:
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cant tipe gud. Lap ful off big old tomcat that wants attentn
LR, why must you think that we are all the same ?Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I like girls that speak their mind and could
care less about the shy and quiet girls.
I would love for her to express thoughts in a
conversation with interesting views on
various subjects.
I like her to be a good listener as well.
Able to take risks to achieve her goals,
try activities that she once feared, or
had in mind and life shouldn't have regrets in it.
She needs to be comfortable in her own skin, striving for her best.
Someone that supports the person she is with,
and doesn't get angry because someone hit a
bump in their life and comforts them, that
everything will be okay, I'm here for you.
If the girl isn't normal wild in her personality and is doing it sometimes,
I don't mind, but being like that would creep me out.
I think everyone has different tastes and you stereotype
because that is all you know around you.
I don't care for blondes at all. Or American women much for that matter, too spoiled. I prefer a woman who doesn't bitch or nag. It's a plus if she likes to cook.
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Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I can name about A Million guys who hate blondes.
I can name 3 billion who do.
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Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
And I can name 8 trillion that don't
Quiet,But not too quiet
Good Lisener
Nice and Fun to be around
SMART
SMART
SMART
Funny
And Dont forget cute :)