We can all agree that men are terrible at recognizing the signals from a woman (myself included), so what are some of the tell-tale signals that men can recoginize when a woman is trying to tell him that she is interested?
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We can all agree that men are terrible at recognizing the signals from a woman (myself included), so what are some of the tell-tale signals that men can recoginize when a woman is trying to tell him that she is interested?
Yeah thats right girls sigals are realy hard to reconize. Before i went out with my ex i did't even knew that she was interested in me, i ended up knowing because my friend who was going out with her best friend told me she had a crush on me.
Its not that men are terrible at recognising signals from woman.. its just that women gives out wrong hints. I had this girl and when i knew something was wrong and asked her, she would always say nothing and that would piss me off sometime. so now when she said that. I'll just assume so.
aniway back to u.. a girl can be interested in you when she gives hints out such as always touching you whenever possible, always looking over in your direction (and looking away when u realized someone is looking at you ;) ), mentioning your name alot of times when your out with you and your frenz, paying extra attention to you and not other guys ( fer those outspoken ones) and trying to impress you when ur out in a group. Well.. this are a few of those tell-tale signs that shes interested in you and when this happens.. heck just go fer it~! :)
It may depend on the personality of the person. If the person is outgoing and very assertive, then it's easier to identify the signals. However, if the person shy, then they tend to hide true emotions they carry.
Ok guys-woman will let you know they are interested-girls will not. And yes sometimes it depends on the personality-some woman are shy-but the body movements and her WORDS will let you know...maybe thats part of the problem-hmmm? cause men DONT listen? Yea that could be. But if a woman is interested in you she'll make it obvious...if youre not getting the subtle clues than theyre not. Easy. For me-if Im interested you'll know-I dont like to play games. Iif I see someone out in a social environment and I see someone giving me the eye-and I am attracted to you-I'll smile back-smiles are a HUGE thing...its the initial smile that will let you know. If she continues to stare and you catch her-go talk to her...hint 1: SMILES
and then you just start a casual conversation-keep her talking to0-ask open ended questions...not yes or no-if you see her her chatting back thats another sign. If she starts to wonder off with her eyes...and loses interest then back off. But her keeping eye contact is also a sign. After awhile of chatting and you get her laughin you should start to see her just non-chalantly touching your arm...when you get to that point-you should have her number by the end of the night.
Squirrley,
"...Ok guys-woman will let you know they are interested-girls will not. And yes sometimes it depends on the personality-some woman are shy-but the body movements and her WORDS will let you know...maybe thats part of the problem-hmmm? cause men DONT listen? Yea that could be. But if a woman is interested in you she'll make it obvious...if youre not getting the subtle clues than theyre not. Easy. For me-if Im interested you'll know-I dont like to play games. Iif I see someone out in a social environment and I see someone giving me the eye-and I am attracted to you-I'll smile back-smiles are a HUGE thing...its the initial smile that will let you know. If she continues to stare and you catch her-go talk to her...hint 1: SMILES"
People smile at me everywhere: in stores, restaurants, school - everywhere.
I should assume all the girls are interested? Highly unlikely you know.
"...If she starts to wonder off with her eyes...and loses interest then back off. But her keeping eye contact is also a sign. After awhile of chatting and you get her laughin you should start to see her just non-chalantly touching your arm...when you get to that point-you should have her number by the end of the night.[/QUOTE]
It is so rare that some girl will look into my eyes all the time.
Why would she do that? to show me she is desperate? She's scared to show that. and touching... yes, some really desperate girls do that. yeah they were interested. But the only thing they have done is made me willing to run away. It was too obvious even before we start to talk it is not going to happen anything good.
Average female would prefer never show any signs of that. It shows signs of
neediness. Neediness means she is not popular. WHo wants to say I am not popular??!
It is so rare that some girl will look into my eyes all the time.Quote:
Originally Posted by BBC1
Why would she do that? to show me she is desperate? She's scared to show that. and touching... yes, some really desperate girls do that. yeah they were interested. But the only thing they have done is made me willing to run away. It was too obvious even before we start to talk it is not going to happen anything good.
Average female would prefer never show any signs of that. It shows signs of
neediness. Neediness means she is not popular. WHo wants to say I am not popular??![/QUOTE]
Then the average female sucks. I love it when my girlfriend shows signs like that. I don't know, I'm one of those guys who can just stare in a girls eyes and actually find it meeningful, talk for hours, and of course, play the little look away and then smile at each other games. Without stuff like that, it would start to get boring. Of course, it's going to get better after you have sex, but after a while, you two won't feel as close, and then bad things could happen to your relationship.
girls
yes means no
no means no
maybe means no
what signals
girls = time x money
we know time = money
so girls = money x money
or money squared
and we all know money is the root of all evil
so girls = the square root of evil x evil
so girls = evil
Huendin,
"......Then the average female sucks. I love it when my girlfriend shows signs like that. I don't know, I'm one of those guys who can just stare in a girls eyes and actually find it meeningful, talk for hours....."
The idea was how to get signals _before_ you actaully know her ot talk to her. You dont stare at girls who you do not know, do you?
And yeah, it is true - for men the average female signal sucks.
Why women do not invent new more understandable signal system? :)
How freakn hard is it for a guy to notice when a woman smiles at them? And yes everywhere you go people are going to smile...I think he wanted to know in certain situations here...such as a bar or local social event-whatever.
My gosh call me old fashion-but smiling and eye contact are true indicators or a start of someone being interested. Do you think a woman is going to go straigh up to someone they DONT know yet and say "hey im interested in you heres my number?" thats highly doubtful. Men and women have their own subtle clues-cat and mouse if you will-tit for tat-you smile at me and I might smile back!
so if a girl / woman smiles at a guy, it doesn't necessarily mean they are interested but is it okay to at least initiate something towards that goal?
YES! Say youre in a bar-library or a college class...you happen to see someone attractive to you or you know her through a friend you catch a glance at her-she notices and smiles. K-were cool there. A little while later you catch yourself looking again-if this continues and shes smiling back at you-then approach her. IF youre looking and shes not looking back anymore than you know-k shes busy or whatever try another day-but the smiles are the initial thing for women. And when we notice youre looking at us and if were interested then were gonna keep smiling at ya-maybe in hopes you will come talk to us...so smile man! Someone maybe watching you too!
shoot, haha! i think i found my problem, i've been looking at the wimmens and i look away as soon as they look at me. i can smile to the older women cuz i know i have no pressure on me, but to women my age and younger, i scurred. damn this insecurity. i'll try this in the next few months. hmmm...i hope it works. thanks squirrley!
Squirrley,
........How freakn hard is it for a guy to notice when a woman smiles at them? And yes everywhere you go people are going to smile...I think he wanted to know in certain situations here...such as a bar or local social event-whatever.
How freakn hard is it for a guy to notice when a woman does _not_
smiles at him? A waitress smiles at even look right into my eyes all the times, a girl in the library - smiles all the times, especially at guys, a girl simply saying Hi when she walk too close - smiles, a girl in the elevator smiled cuz she was embarrased cuz of the wrond button she pressed...
How freakn hard is it.......
......Do you think a woman is going to go straight up to someone they DONT know yet and say "hey im interested in you heres my number?" thats highly doubtful.
No I dont think so. By the way, why she would not say ".. here is my number?" She is not confident if he is good enough for her?
Tons of girls do give their numbers to Brad Pitt - kinda persons. And it is ok.
.......Men and women have their own subtle clues-cat and mouse if you will-tit for tat-you smile at me and I might smile back!
Men do not have so sublte clues, they are primitively straightforward.
If you smile at anyone, 95% chance that person'll smile back at you. (5% is that he\she simple did not notice your smile). Though of course it does not mean anything in terms of liking.
Squirrley,
Why is it comlex ritual - look\smile\look\smile?Quote:
Originally Posted by squirrley
Cant a girl just come up to him and ask for somehting? Some help? Directions? Time? Any kinda question?
Why it should be so subtle that a man should not get it? :D
PandaCivic,
Some other guy here was embarrased cuz when he kiss his girl, his got erection. Embarrased! You said you look away....
You may called it pussification of men.
It is interesting to note that women still want not a pussy but a man.
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Originally Posted by PandaCivic
all true...but certain smiles are inviting, and most smiles are just plain courteous. that's the hard part, distinguishing between the two.
So you want to be an expert on smiles? Just go ahead and ask girls out, later you'll see who smiled at you just plain courteously.Quote:
Originally Posted by PandaCivic
Have a Good Civic Climb, Panda :D
I disagree completely. I think it is harder to tell if someone is very outgoing! The signs that you would think point to her liking you are thrown out of line. Whereas certain things like laughter at a lot of things you say, a little touchiness, eye contact, etc. make you feel like this person likes you, the fact of the matter is that this person may just feel more comfortable doing these things. It's harder to tell with someone outgoing because signs that would normally be more revealing or even telltale may just be something an outgoing person normally does. With a shy person, it's true that they hide emotions. But I feel that when a shy person does show their emotions, that they are usually true. So even some small thing from them may hint that they are interested in you.Quote:
Originally Posted by m0by
Youre quite the pessismetic kind arent ya BBC? If a woman is continually smiling back thats a damn hint already...thats easy. If she smiles once and doesnt look again shes not interested. Thats not really that hard to figure out once you start to notice it and pick up on them...those cute smiles!
I agree that continuous smiles... long look into the eyes..yeah. ThoughQuote:
Originally Posted by squirrley
in everyday life we dont see it. if it happens on a date - it is obvious even without smile, even before she smiles.
In real life no one would stare at us, like us or not.
Yes I am very much a skeptic, no pink glasses:
"The fact that a believer is happier than a skeptic is no more to the point
than the fact than a drunken man is happier than a sober one.
-George Bernard Shaw, writer, Nobel laureate
yeah but i have found from many experiences that women can be major teases, smiling at you with that look in her eye but actually meaning nothing. That is why women are just crazy!
of course it fun to tease you, make you think "what is she thinking?"Quote:
Originally Posted by 68mustang
to make you try to approach her, to see how you act... confident or not.
It's fun! they are not crazy at all.