Appears to be my lot in life. Should be oh so fun..It's weird not thinking but almost KNOWING one is going to be single for life and having never done the deed or even seen a pair..
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Appears to be my lot in life. Should be oh so fun..It's weird not thinking but almost KNOWING one is going to be single for life and having never done the deed or even seen a pair..
I just registered on POF and omg, its raining men.
LOL. Yeah, PoF is for women to get an easy ego boost and men to get an ego drain. Pretty sad.
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Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Yet you won't do anything about it.
Lol, so irrelevant...
Technically, we all die alone.
Yeah but that's of no consolation to anyone ever.
Listen sunshine, you need a sense of perspective. Go read some stories on the internet of young guys who have been paralysed, got brain tumours, lost limbs etc.
Email them about your woes about not getting any pussy and see how much sympathy you get back.
Seriously, start enjoying and appreciating what you've got rather than wallowing in depression at what you haven't.
Depends: what did those guys do to get paralyzed or lose limbs? I'm not sorry for Jackass imitators; fkn' get what they deserve.
Pretty naive perspective; I'm sure you have your own inner issues, probably envy for those far more fortunate than you so you project that frustration by telling me to be grateful. I see through you, bro.
I am happy for what i have got, because i have perspective on it. I try to get as much enjoyment out of life as i can, seeing friends, climbing, gym, holidays, etc etc. I am intentionally not putting myself forward for promotion at work as my work/life balance is good, and i don't consider the extra money to be worth the free time i'd be losing.
What i meant about reading other peoples stories who are worse off, they put your trivial problems into perspective, as at the minute it seems like you're letting some pretty insignificant sh#t get you down and bother you far more than it should.
You're assuming I don't. Which I DO. Everyone should look down on and condescend to the less fortunate to display gratitude; it's a societal norm. Unfortunately, it usually keeps the poor masses content with things and too complacent to enact any change. What more folks SHOULD start doing is also looking at the more fortunate; some have it so easy it's incredibly unfair.
Besides, are you telling me my living my life without having sex, seeing a pair or having a relationship is insignificant? Because in Western civilization, those are incredibly important things.
bullshit. Bullshit. BULLSHIT.
Lol, nah, dawg. Y u mad?
Look down and condescend, no. Only douchebags do that. When you read about someone who's been dealt a truly sh#t hand in life yet they are making the most of it instead of wallowing in self pity then it inspires you to realise that you don't have it half as bad so make the best of it and stop crying like a bitch.
It's good to aspire to better yourself but only in a way that gives you realistic goals and some determination to change. Otherwise you fixate on it and are always miserable because someone will always have it better than you!
So, at what point do you stop becoming a whiney bitch and sort your sh#t out?
You're telling me shit I already know and do. That still doesn't mean first world problems don't suck so how about you quit being a pretentious little bitch and quit telling me to do shit I do already?
Why the **** would I be mad?Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well sweet cheeks, you've posted up a topic on a forum which is for advice, don't go crying now if you can't take the advice given.
You summed it up pretty well, first world problems!
From looking at all the topics you've made, you're going in circles which is why i said you just need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and start doing positive actions. Am not going to sugar coat it for you, as others have tried that and clearly it's not helped.
Lol, that obscenity proves u mad.Quote:
Originally Posted by HeartIsAching [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I was actually being very ironic; I haven't really given a whole lot of thought to girls lately. I was just curious to see if without a certain troll that used to be popular on here if any of my posts would actually get responses.Quote:
Originally Posted by steviej [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Strangely enough, it's when you're not thinking about it that you most often meet someone. At least from my experience anyway!
Not for me; I don't find any when I am thinking of them and I don't meet them when I'm not.
Never heard about POF till now... May as well try it ^.^
plenty of fish? It's claimed to be the world's biggest dating site. There are 2 that come up instantly in a discussion with folks about dating sites: OkCupid! and POF. Both are free which is probably why the traditional pay sites aren't so frequently name dropped in casual discussion about it (although I wonder if that's because they do have subscriptions to sites that charge but think there's a stigma to it)
Not even close.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Then why would you feel compelled to cuss if you weren't even slightly antagonized?Quote:
Originally Posted by HeartIsAching [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Lol u not supposed to get mad when I ask if u mad. Bro.
I cuss all the ****ing time. Merely for emphasis. Get used to it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
OK...u getting mad now?
Hell no. I rarely get mad anymore.
Why would you care if you die alone? You'll be dead.
Where did you get the idea life is fair? It isn't. Your lack of sex is only significant to you. You will get superficial advice on here and support which you are unable to accept. The burden of change or self-acceptance is entirely yours to bear.Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
How many times, in how many ways, by how many people will say this before he understands what it means?Quote:
Originally Posted by dem862 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Lets do a poll :o)
Spare me that technical BS because you know what I meant.Quote:
Originally Posted by dem862 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Everyone does not want to be alone. My greatest fear is to age without someone. But, at the same time I am not going crazy over it. No offense LR, but you said in another topic that you did not want to move to look for someone and there is only snobby girls where you live. If you truly want to find someone and not die alone, you are going to have to take a chance. Go live somewhere else, if it's more important then school or your job. What do you want in life? Because if you are going to do anything, you better not regret your decisions. Stay or go on the hunt, it's up to you.
LR is in his early 20s, life hasn't even begun yet. Between the time of 21 and 28 I had 5 notable relationships that were 6 months or greater (and a few shorter than that). Before I was 20, I had one girlfriend. ONE, and it was when I was 16 and lasted just long enough to give up my V card before it was over. Things get better, but only if you want them to. If you're convinced you're never going to get anything and just live on a forum posting about it over and over...then the only element responsible for your loneliness is yourself.
Also, RvW, I saw you ask about PoF in another thread. I met my current GF there and went on at least one date with several others, so don't listen to LR, it can work out if you have an appealing profile and are willing to try it out.
Correction: on PoF, one has to be physically appealing. The profile hardly matters compared to looks; that's what girls on dating sites go for first and **** all to the profile unless the guy is hot. No wonder I never got responses.
Thanks, I am not to worried about it. Just trying to stay confident and happy, even if I just took a big stumble. Though, I did check in PoF and found a very interesting person. Not going to keep my hopes up to high though.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cerby [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You know what sucks though, using 2 hours to write your profile only to lose data. Somehow it did not save and I had to rewrite the entire thing >.< Sucks because I wanted to complete it before bed and it was late lol.
Well, I have no idea what you look like. So do you work out? Shave? Clean yourself everyday? How about a pic?Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Technical BS, indeed!Quote:
Originally Posted by Love'sReject [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Monty Python is so boring, sorry.
Well, I don't send pics to dudes because that'd be gay but I'm 5'6, 120 lbs and usually clean cut (haven't shaved in a few months).Quote:
Originally Posted by RipVanWinkleX [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]