When you have been a long term relationship, do you feel that you should have full knowledge, partial knowledge, or little knowledge of your partners sexual history? Does it matter to you if your partner has had more or less partners than you?
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When you have been a long term relationship, do you feel that you should have full knowledge, partial knowledge, or little knowledge of your partners sexual history? Does it matter to you if your partner has had more or less partners than you?
No, I don't even think about that. I just care that he only has one partner from now on: ME.
I don't know where he learned what he knows and I don't care, but I'm very glad he knows it.
Other than virginal status and whether or not they are disease-free, I don't see how anything more is anyone else's business. Smart people know enough to avoid asking questions they really don't want to know the answer to.
What if you're bf tells you everything before you even ask?
Honestly, I would question his motivation.
Hehe :D ... I think I actually questioned his sanity at the time. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
This question has been done to death already.
i don't want any knowledge of it, as long as they don't have any diseases or infections i don't want.
here's a question:
what if you asked them about their sexual history, and they told you that they were raped once?
That would be awkward. My natural instinct would be to ask questions, find out who the guy was, and offer to kill him or something stupid like that. But that's an insensitive and dumb reaction. I guess the proper thing to do would be to wrap her up in a bear hug and not say a word. If she wants to talk, she'll talk.
Oh God Here We Go Again!
I want to know the truth...my reaction to it is none of their or yours business...how about that one? I deserve to know, if I don't get to know then they don't deserve to be with me. Do they lie because they think I can't handle the truth or because they can't handle me walking away?
I vote for FULL knowledge of the past, I deserve to know if I am to be a part of it.
Hmm.. I seem to have conflicting opinions.. I think I'll keep em to myself for now. Of course I want to know.. but do I really?! :P
I dont want any knowledge of that sort. I cant stand the thought of someone I care about screwing someone else
i don't really care about knowing that but if they tell me dose it really matter
I just don't want to know. If he's sleeping with me now, and enjoying it, that's really all that matters.
Everyone has a past get over it.
I agree with the bit i boldQuote:
Originally Posted by bluesummer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Of course you all do, you are all women.
why mind or care about that?it is the past and once he/she with you you are her/his only partner already unless otherwise then that is diff case liao =x when she willing to tell you u listen but if noot don't keep asking ba they won't like it just like you do right?Quote:
Originally Posted by gaddes [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i was wondering when we were gonna have another thread like this. i mean it's been one whole week already!
Not all women are the sameQuote:
Originally Posted by Only-virgins [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Insert my usual answer here.
I should just say this every time in these threads from now on too, everyone knows what I think already.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rob26 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Originally Posted by Rob26 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Laughing my ass off. I totally know what your usual answer is. That was funny.
i think that it depends on what age you are in,
when you are young or like in the 20s you think about
this all the time,you question and you wanna know evverything
there is to know about your partner because you are worried about your hard earned reputation,
but they say that when you go to your 30s or older
all that is impt is that they dont cheat and that they are good in bed.
Who is they?
my friends in the 30s and 40s
You must have powerful friends since they speak for everyone in their age.Quote:
Originally Posted by TheKissPolice [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]