So I see that alot of you ladies need advice as it pertains to the male behavior patterns in relationships. I can answer those questions. I know exactly why dudes act the way they do.....
First question:
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So I see that alot of you ladies need advice as it pertains to the male behavior patterns in relationships. I can answer those questions. I know exactly why dudes act the way they do.....
First question:
hrmm...what would i ask a gay male??
raverboy
What are some things that guys are attracted to.. and what should women do to get guys? :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Illusional [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Why are men so obsessed with my pink taco?
Why don't the majority of straight men look as good as the gay ones? And what's with the pants sagging in the back on straight guys? (I've never seen a gay man with such appalling taste.)
Maybe because it's DELICIOUS!?Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No, no. I want the gay male point of view, here. I think it might be a bid different from yours, DM.
Btw, fix me a cocktail and go clean the pool.
Aye, aye, Cap'n!
Girl, you are so crazy. You know why they like that shit.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Because quite frankly, you have these straight men who dont take the time of day to properly groom themselves. And they just dont quite cut it when it comes to projecting, that is, the altering of ones perception. Women, of course, are mostly attracted to confidence. And most gay men, whether he is naturally feminine or masculine, will be able to exude this confidence more readily than a straight male. Alot of straight men, for example, arent even aware of their posture, or even care to be aware of it and as a result they suffer miserably. So some straight men may seem less appealing because they just dont have that IT factor like most gay men seem to have. And for the record, there are alot of masculine gay men who I would say is probably the majority of the gay population. Gay people arent all feminine, dont be deceived.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Typical heterosexual guys dont like to be nagged at in which you women are ever so equipped for, so if there is one thing I can tell you to avoid its that. I would advise you not to go through his things, i.e. phone, phone bill, pockets. Insecure Women, do not accuse that man of cheating, trust him. If you are going to blame him for doing something he didnt do then he's going to do it, girl. These, my dear, are some of the things men do not like, otherwise I would say that it just depends on that guy as to what they are attracted to. Men are not really all one way. Some are the intellectual type. You have some who are macho, and they feel the need to prove their manliness, and most likely they wont engage in communication that would save the relationship. Some guys are sensitive, these are the ones who I think would make an ideal mate for a woman becauise they are not a dime a dozen. Sensitive does not equal gay ladies. Then you have some of these men ladies who are insecure with themselves. These are the jealous men who will control you, abuse you, who is domineering, who has low self esteem, HOMOPHOBIC, sexist and maybe even racist. Avoid these men!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by GrkScorp [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You don't know how many girls that are friends have told me that I'm probably the gayest, straight guy they know, but the sweetest. No I'm not gay. But yes I'm very sensitive, but I usually hide it because people associate sensitive men as being gay or too feminine.Quote:
Originally Posted by DharmicLove [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Then again I tend to take care of myself hygiene-wise, love to cook, disneyland, photography, and played on a soccer team that was a little gay...lol, and I'm quiet. So that might have something to do with their claims. Ohh well.
I have a buddy (I am straight male) who is gay. He tries to cuddle with me and grab my nipples all the time. Once he even took a grab for my crotch, and sometimes my ass. I've made it clear that I am straight and that I am not interested. He also does this to some of the other straight guys in our clique. What's up with that?
Why do women always assume that straight guys are cheap pigs that only want to ****? I mean, I am not at all like that. I am quite self-conscious of myself in that way, and I am looking for a serious relationship. All my buddies are the same way... and it seems that women are just oblivious.
Answer: You're in college.Quote:
Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Is that's why I find my metrosexual BF so attractive? ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by DharmicLove [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I want to know if gay men take turns being the giver and the receiver (if you know what I mean), or if these roles are more dependent on who is the more masculine/feminine of the pair.
I agree with lilwing. I blame the frats...Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So in the gay community we have these roles or titles known as top or bottom. The top is the giver and the bottom is the receiver. There is also in the gay community that which is called versatile, in which both parties give and receive equally. Being a top, bottom or versatile has nothing to do with whether one is masculine or not. There are transexuals who are actually tops.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
As for your first question, Women only assume what they are shown. In general, most men are cheap pigs who really only want to ****, gay or straight. It is in our nature, as men, to only want to ****. However, intelligent men can recognize this aspect within themselves and make conscious efforts to change this instinctual behavior.Quote:
Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So I agree with you that all men are not cheap pigs who only want to ****. Just the bulk of us because of the fact that its basic instinct for men to behave this way.
As for the gay friend of yours who makes advances. Quite simply, he's a slut. Some gay men are just shameless, and then again they are still men, so this brings me back to what is instinctually and psychologically ingrained onto the male brain. Except for, in this case, the gay male is attracted to other males. So instead of making advances towards women, its towards men. And this particular gay friend that you speak of simply has no respect for you. Avoid him.
I have a question.
A guy in my year group is gay, but some say that he is only pretending so that he can hang with all the girls (None of the boys like him) and they say that it's an excuse to be near them and talk to them. Is that/ can that be true?
X
DL, how did you find out you were gay? Did you ever have a GF & then realized a male-female pairing wasn't for you? Or did you know from an early age?
Okay, new question: will you take samba lessons with me? My boyfriend is working nights these days, and I really want to learn to dance.
I dont think that this is true, unless otherwise, the guy in you year group is stupid. You cant fake gay. And him, as a man, if he would go that far as to pretending to be gay then most likely he is gay.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lozenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Well, I knew pretty much as a toddler, so I would say that in all likelihood I was born this way. I did, however, go through a period of time in which I attempted to suppressed my homosexual urges, around the ages of 16-17-18. During this period I had girlfriends and there was just this feeling I got and this fear of committing to them but I didnt get this same feeling with a man. So no matte how much I consciously tried to suppress the urges I couldnt.Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
i already have a gay friend that i 've asked all my "ask a gay guy" questions to. in fact i think i know a little more than i'd like to know.
is there any way to undo the corruption?
Don't you miss breasts? They are prettier than testicles.
LOL!! Hahaha! Oh, it made me laugh! :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
that is all:)
because it tastes so damn goooooooooood. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
raverboy
Do you like having a cock in your mouth?
I have a question...
Why is that people say it's always true when gay men tell women they are beautiful, sexy, intelligent etc and when straight men say so... they don't really mean the compliments?
I can answer that, and I'm not even gay. Obviously, a gay male has no ulterior motive for telling you that you are beautiful.
Thanks but I want to know a gay man's perspective.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hey.. common.. that was a low blow.. :upset:Quote:
Originally Posted by Frasbee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
For example what did this friend tell you??Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No honey, I dont see it that way. A gay like me, totally secure, PROUD, HOT, confident, know who I am and what I want, I see it fairly as a question. To asnswer the question that GrScorp asked, yes I do love to deep throat me some cock. There are exceptions.Quote:
Originally Posted by GrkScorp [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Im not a gutterbut gay. A gutterbut gay is one who is promiscuous, and he will have sex with just about any man, and he doesnt want a relationship. Most likely, he has low self esteem and ****ing every man provides him with an outlet for that low self esteem. This is no different than a straight man going after women because chances are he will in fact **** every woman who will give him the time of day.
I'm in no way a gutterbut gay. For me to even consider sleeping with anyone there is a committment requirement. Anyway, back to the topic at hand, yes i do suck cock very well. In fact, most gay men suck cock BETTER THAN women.
Because, my dear, the fact is, alot of gay men have a picture in their head of an ideal woman. Most of the time, depending on the gay man, this picture of this ideal woman will be a diva i.e. Madonna, beyonce, Mariah Carey, Diana Ross. Most of us have an innate sense of style, so we automatically know about hair, make up, fashion designers, accessories. We know about body types. We know what looks a hot mess and we will tell you. Pretty much, since a gay man is attracted to other men he wont lie to you concerning beauty, style, intelligence because there are no ulterior motives. So when a gay man say things like, "You are fabulous," or, "She is fierce," he means it, because you were able to capture the essence of that ideal woman in his head.Quote:
Originally Posted by FoxyLaydee [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Hmm, breasts?? Okay, child, my take on breasts is this. I never really liked breasts, even when I was going through a phase of suppressing my homosexuality. I found that, in comparison to a man's chest and abs, breasts fail miserably. But they are cute, and when I see a nice rack I am able to distinguish that they are a nice rack. I'm just not attracted to them sexually. Huge titties, I dont like. Fashion model size breasts are perfect.Quote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Thanks, love! My gay friends were right all along..Quote:
Originally Posted by DharmicLove [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
:D
Girl....I would love to.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Oooh! That sounded so much different than when I said it! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by DharmicLove [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]