Why do white women never date oriental guys?
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Why do white women never date oriental guys?
Why do Asian guys rarely ask out white women?
Huh? I know a few that do.
Besides, it's usually the other way around....oriental guys won't date white girls because it will piss their parents off. Trust me, I know. I lived in Vancouver, my grad class was like 70% asian.
I know quite a few couples that include an asian guy and a white women actually....including my brother.
Having problems?Quote:
Originally Posted by Vodka [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Denial isn't a river.
Yes i'm having $247,000 worth of problems.
tierneylab.blogs.nytimes.com/2007/04/13/single-female-seeking-same-race-male/
"For equal success with a white woman, an African-American needs to earn an additional $154,000; a Hispanic man needs $77,000; an Asian needs $247,000."
So I guess, it's the same question:
Why don't white women date oriental guys?
Because they're typically stereotyped as having a small penis?Quote:
Originally Posted by Vodka [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
The funny thing is, if you line up a Black, a Hispanic, and an Asian guy, of the three the Asian guy will always be perceived as "The Most White."
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Originally Posted by Vodka [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
They never do? Huh?
News flash for me... I guess I haven't been doing what all the other white women are doing? ;)
I've dated oriental guys and girls... along with those from other races. I like to leave my options open, so race really isn't very important for me, so long I like their personality and they are physically appealing to me.
It never occurred to me to ask for a bank statement.Quote:
Originally Posted by Vodka [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Anyway, it obviously isn't related to penis size, because the black guy is charged more than the Hispanic man.
I had thought that might be the case but the black number is larger than the hispanics and black men have bigger um..uknows. I was thinking that this could have been the case due to a evolutionary biology cause. If the child has a big uknow, then they would have an advantage in promoting those genes into the next generation. Asian fidelity would then be a curse so to speak but the black/hispanic figures makes this unlikely.
I would have thought the greater income of orientals would be a draw but discovered that is only the case because the asian women make more than white women. Asian men actually make less than white men.
I'm of asian descent dating a white girl for 2 years.
Booya.
Those statistics look funny to me. Surely if you are a confident guy you won't be dettered by them? Just approach women until you find one which is not so superficial.Quote:
Originally Posted by Vodka [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Though I have a question for you. If you're an asian guy and it seems like it's so much easier to land an asian girl (according to the article) why don't you find a nice asian girl instead?
As a percentage of the population, there are less Asians in the US than black or hispanic men. That probably has something to do with those stats.
I suppose there is a built-in cultural preference for your own race and ethnicity. That probably explains most of it. But there are PLENTY of exceptions, as Frasbee pointed out.
Carl.
this is more of a geographical question. the asian and caucasian relationships differ greatly around the world. in hawaii, there are many interracial couples... especially asian men with white women.
raverboy
my ex (my first real love) was chinese, i'm attracted to asian men actually
LOL, I found this very funny for some reason.Quote:
Originally Posted by Vodka [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Its interesting, tho. I remember a Chinese postdoc. FOB and he was REALLY into white gals. Had an entire album of photos of Audrey Hepburn and Princess Di. Nice fellow, but that seemed a bit creepy, actually.
Small Penis.
well, I am Asian. I asked that question when I was younger (I am 28 now). My answer now is that it depends on where you are and also what makes a girl, white or not, want to date you? How are you different from all the other white and Asian guys?Quote:
Originally Posted by Vodka [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
If you are in a close minded place ie mid-west or the south, then generally white women are less likely to want to date asian men.
I just got to NYC. I have been on around 40 dates in the last 2.5 months and most of the girls I dated were white.
Actually most of the time, the issue of race doesn't even come up in our conversations. My last two girlfriends were white.
Be different. Be excellent. Don't fit into the Asian stereotype. Then I think you will find success with women, white or not.
one of my friends is dating a like 1/4 asian but he really looks asian, his hands are even smaller then hers (quite funny seeing a girl with bigger hands then the guy shes dating)
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Originally Posted by Vodka [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That's just screwy. I've dated non-white guys that earned way less than the white guys I dated. It's not like when I meet them I ask for their financial portfolio and a paystub.
I think some non-caucasian men that couldn't score with white chicks made up that survey to justify their inability to land dates with them.
I don't know how many guys would buy the garbage Vodka posted. Most women have a head attached to their shoulders.Quote:
Originally Posted by bluesummer [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Thanks for pointing that out. ;)
I'm white and my ex-boyfriend was half-mexican and half-native american. Honestly most people thought he was asian. That could be because I live in NYC and there aren't very many native americans here (compared to asian and hispanic people). He looked very NA to me but had very pale skin.
I'm totally attracted to asian men (as well as men of all other races). I've just not been asked out by any.
I am asian, and my woman is white. I never had a serious relationship with a white woman before for some unknown reason. But I can say this....I totally love a woman who is compatible with me, and loves me for who I am. This woman happens to be white, and I am very attracted to her.
I suppose if she were black or hispanic, I would love her the same. Color actually becomes less significant as the bond grows stronger. I don't even notice that she's white anymore. hahahah... I just know she is sooooo gorgeous and wonderful. She also tells me that her white
friends like asian guys too, so there is a population of white women who secretly dig asian men..... actually not so secretly anymore.
Kaius, necromancy is not good, this thread died over a year ago...Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaius [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
my question is why do so many asian girls want white boys!? sooooooooooooooooooooooooo many.
That's not true. My best friend is dating a Korean man and she loves him with all her heart. He had to return to South Korea for a year and they stayed together that here, and now he's going to come back to the US for graduate school. They have a very strong relationship.
It's all about preference. Some white women like orientals, some don't. But there are white/oriental couples out there.
-Kristan
only you.....Quote:
Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
raverboy
This is not true, come to Toronto and see, there are many asian guys with white girls.
The real question here is why dont white women date brown guys that much???? or even hispanic guys. I rarely see these couples.
You must be forgetting about Paul Cho.
All the Asian girls I know or see are with white or black guys... their stealing our women!
"our" as if you own them.
I see couples with white women and asain guys all the time. Move to California or Hawaii.
^ seems like it's all where you live in BC or anywhere in Canada many, MANY couples are interracial as in white dudes asian girls- like A LOT of couples...
Don't deny the truth.Quote:
Originally Posted by girl68 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Oh okay. ^
I'm in the UK and I gotta say that it's a rare combination to see over here.
I only know one couple, he's Japanese, she's white.
I've never seen a black guy with an Oriental woman.
I've seen around 3 or 4 couples, he was white and the partner Phillipino.
A few couples, he's black, she's white.
Can't speak for all regions of the UK though and because in London it might be more common to see these pairings.
I live in a predominant 'white' region, so it's mostly white couples I see together.
I gotta say, many Asian dudes are just too shy. Or they just assume the white girls don't like them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Vodka [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
My GF told me she and her white gal pals think Asian men are quite attractive, but have never been asked out
by an asian man. What a shame. I feel my asian brothas need to step up and really represent themselves out there.
I mean people should go color-blind sometimes. If an asian man likes a woman, he should approach her regardless
of her color. If she turns him down, then at least he tried.... no regrets. Asian men are just so afraid of rejection
it's ridiculous. Yes I am criticizing my peeps. I wish they would stop limiting themselves.
Color blind my ass!Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaius [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You love your white girl.
I attended Carnegie Mellon University (CMU), which actually stands for Chinese, Married or Ugly. I dated about six or so Asians, because there were so many of them at my school... Let's just say that from what I've seen, the "small penis" rumor is absolutely true. haha
On average, Asians do have smaller penises and vaginas. It's just the nature of their race. Now that I live in a culturally diverse area, do I choose to date Asians? Hell no! It's partially because of their notoriously small penises, but mostly because I don't find them very attractive at all. I think most girls want a guy who can dominate them.... a guy who the girl doesn't think that she could stand a chance with if they were ever to get into a physical fight. Because of most Asians' small stature, I think they don't satisfy this need with white girls. I'm a fairly typical sized white girl (5'7", 130 lbs, athletic), and with most of the Asians that I meet, I feel that I could overpower them.... even though there's a high possibility that they could be ninjas.
Black men, on the other hand, just frighten me. I always feel like there is a higher probability of them raping me, so I tend to stay away. There is also the stereotype that white women who date black men are seen as trashy. These white women can't find anyone else who will be with them, so they have to settle for a black guy (who will basically f*ck anything). :)