Just wondering and would like to read some stories :)
Just wondering and would like to read some stories :)
Once. I fell in love with him because he has a lot of inner strenght, emotional maturity, confidence, integrit emotional intelligence, hes not a quitter, he works hard, hes gorgeous, tall, strong, fit and perfect, he makes me laugh, great in bed, he has self respect and respect for women.
He has hugh self esteem, confidenxe, knows what he wants, focused, determined, calm, hed never give up on us without a fight, he loves me unconditionally for who i am and treats me the way i feel i deserve to be treated.
I have so much respect for this beautiful man-hes one in a million and i never want to let him go.
you are pretty lucky michelle :)Quote:
Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I know :) he is the best. Thank you!
For real? Once.
Real, actual, true love? Never.
Yes only once. And i intend to keep it that way :)
i had past relationships-never compatable, never felt right, got bored fast, was not happy etc.. Iv always known what i want and i found him
Once when I was young my first love but he died. Then again with the man I am currantly seperating from :(
I was married to another man for 20 years but I was not inlove with him, cared very much for him but no not inlove.
So twice ...................... so far................ still a lot of life and love in me yet :)
oh sorry for the first one :) but cool you are that positiveQuote:
Originally Posted by tassy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
for me twice. the 1st time was my ex boyfriend, and it sounds so corny but I knew I loved him when I 1st met him... he had these incredible green eyes and his sense of humor and charm immediately caught my attention. we flirted for a few months before we started dating and I'll never forget the first time he kissed me. I always heard of people describing true love kisses and comparing them to fireworks and stuff like that, always thought it was crazy but I seriously felt them during our 1st kiss.
the 2nd time was a guy I met after my ex broke up with me, at first I was just attracted to him physically but after hanging out and getting to know each other I felt myself falling in love with him. it was a different kind of love than my 1st love ex-boyfriend, it was more of a gradual thing but the intensity of my feelings for him were so strong I knew it was more than just simply liking him. however he isn't really a good guy and in the end not right for me, yet I still struggle with trying to let go of my feelings for him!
those are my stories :] not too exciting haha
Have to be positive darlin, I have to be.
I have never forgotten my first love I still shed a tear on his birthday and the anniversary of his death every year.
I dearly love the man I am separating from but sometimes, sadly being in love just isnt enough.
What about you Kat?
ahaha mad cute i know the first kiss feeling <3 ugh i wish my ex was here smh i even planned it took him inside a park, drank coffee, talked and he asked me for a kiss. hahahas i realized it wasnt a dream like a 10 minutes after the kiss happened... so cheesyQuote:
Originally Posted by ashley89 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
that's how I felt! haha we worked together at a retirement home, we were servers and worked in the kitchen and I remember I went into this big walk in refrigerator to get something and he came in after me and he just like came over leaned in and kissed me on the lips... and I walked out of the fridge smiling from ear to ear hahaha the rest of the day everyone was like Ashley what's wrong with you? I wasn't even talking just walking around smiling hahaha. too bad he turned out to be an ass!Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrina26 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
ugh lord for me i will say 2 impossible loves and 1 that was possible but didnt work.Quote:
Originally Posted by tassy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
first was a hs friend he was and is my best friend back in my country, i dont know if it was the time we shared together or what that drove me crazy when he was around me and wanted him as more as friends, but he had a gf and saw me only as his bbf. now he has a kid and im her godmother lol so i learned how to love him in a different way.
the second one i met in college, he was single and i saw him and told myself he is going to be my husband hahahaa nay didnt happen he only saw me like a sister and wont allow anybody to say we make a cute couple because he doesnt like me like that at all. so i just forgot about him.
My third, my only and first bf, met him at work. The only one i liked and actually liked me back still love him but he broke up with me. all of them have an awesome personality and funny as hell.
no too lucky i guess
that was funny and cute. oh well his lostQuote:
Originally Posted by ashley89 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So far twice. The first time I was just 16 but I really did love the guy. He just had the greatest personality and charm and we just clicked from day one. He was also my first kiss too so he was really special to me. It took me a long time to let go of him because even though it sounds silly being that young I really thought he was the one I'd marry. After he moved away I would just compare everyone to him and I could never find that instant connection with someone until I met my last boyfriend. I fell in love with him, but he didn't fall in love with me and broke up with me. What made me fall in love was that he was different than any other guy I've met. I have a whole list of things I could write about why I love him, but since we broke up I'm trying to forget all those things :/ I know what you guys mean by the kiss though. There's honestly nothing like kissing someone you are in love with.. It never gets old and it is probably the most amazing feeling ever and I definitely miss it. Although I still do love him, I don't think it was the true ever lasting love or else things wouldn't have ended. I'm still looking for that kind of love :)
On a funny note I met those two guys while working too. Maybe if we find other jobs we will find other boyfriends lol
:-/ working on the same to forget my ex he broke up with me for the same reason but he treated me like a queen ohh lifeQuote:
Originally Posted by kskts6115 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Fair warning, I was a bit of a mess in my younger years lol, and I always fell hard for anyone who gave me that butterflies in the stomach feeling.
I'm taking the term "fall in love" literally btw, so I'm including cases that some of you might not believe to fit if you view being "in love" to be the same as "love".
First time was freshman year in high school. Fell in love with 2 girls at once, both of them on the cheer leading squad. I didn't have the highest self-esteem back then and convinced myself that they were both out of my league, but I had classes with them and we ended up doing a group project together in our civics class. Even though I was terribly awkward back then, I managed to chat them up and got the interest of one of them, the other more or less blew me off. Being the genius that I was back then, I started blowing off the one who was interested and falling all over myself to chase the one who was blowing me off. I chased her completely away, but still had the interest of the other one. However, I ignored her in order to keep myself available in hopes that the one who had been blowing me off would come around, telling myself that if I could just find some way to let her know what an amazing guy I was she would surely fall in love with me. 12 years later I'm still waiting for her to come around lmao.
A couple of years later I fell in love with a band nerd. Had a basic typing class basically just to fill space in my schedule by that point and was sitting right next to her. We hit it off immediately and fell madly in love. I convinced myself that this was the one, that I would never find another girl so amazing and I would die if I ever had to be without her.
Then I lost interest and found someone else....poor band nerd :( this one turned out being a bit much for me tho. I've posted about her before, emotionally disturbed and all that. I tried to be her white knight and it all just ended in disaster. I decided that would be the last time I mess with an emotionally disturbed girl.
At 23 a new girl started working where I worked and we hit it off pretty fast. We were both fitness freaks and loved to go out at night and dance and we had more fun with each other than we've ever had with anyone else. Problem is she was married. Being the gentleman I was I came up with the idea to break them up and make her leave him for me. Didn't work. She ended up sorely regretting me and staying with him. Not sure what eventually became of them or if he ever found out about me.
I went awhile without anything serious until I hooked up with a new girl who started working at my other job. She was quite a bit younger than me but that didn't stop us from developing serious chemistry. Unfortunately, I was sick of everything else about my life except her and decided to join the military in order to give myself a second chance at a future. Though we loved each other, we broke up when it was time for me to leave, both of us holding each other in tears knowing that I would be far away while she couldn't come with me, knowing we might never see each other again. It was perhaps the saddest moment of my life :sad2:
I have another gf now but it's not all that serious and I wouldn't say I'm in love. I'm leaving for a new base in a few months so I'm not making any real commitments here. TBH I'm still not completely over the one I left behind when I joined the service.
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Originally Posted by UNBANMENOOB [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Back in high school, I fell in love with every semi-respectably looking to hot chick that ever said a word to me (sometimes not even that much!).
Leave it to a stupid Brit to misspell a South Park quote: it's "authorit-ah"!
Oh my whats the point in posting nasty stuff on here? Honestly go back to your dojo and tell your Sensie all about your behaviour on here, I am pretty certain that there will be a sparing match mighty quick with him due to your lack of respect towards others. Yes I know about Karate and I know how they teach respect above all else, something you clearly missed!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by UNBANMENOOB [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You are rather funny thanks for the giggle, someone on here said that now and then there are idiots that come on here just to be well idiots and its amusing, at first i thought how could it be funny? But there it is!!!!! woop woop there it is!!! LMAOQuote:
Originally Posted by UNBANMENOOB [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Im sorry about your first love tassy :( thats sad xx
I have had 4 loves in my life, here are the 2 I look back the most fondly.
My 2nd GF, a 5'9 beautiful/super smart mixed European girl from Israel. We met in college/class she was looking for a place to sit and her eyes met mine, so I smiled and she sat next to me. We did the normal intro and class began. We exchanged numbers. We became study buddies and started hanging out a bit. She invited me to her roomates bday party, we drank and danced. Eventually, while dancing close I gave her a kiss on the neck with my hands around her. She touched my face and we kissed for the 1st time. We basically lived together and had so much chemistry that we lost ourselves in each other for a year. She was really my sexual awakening and we always seemed so in tune.
My 3rd GF, a beautiful latina. Met her in college dancing at a club/bar. I was a junior and she a senior. We hit it off right away and danced the whole night. She was sitting next to me as the club called last call, so I invited her and her friends to an after party. Her friends did not want to go, but she didn't want to leave me. We were standing at this point and she was still beside me talking to her friends, I realized then that she had been holding my hand the entire time. She came with me to the party. We kissed later that night and just could not let each other go. We started dating and I soon realized she was inexperienced, so we talked and said we would take things slow.
Well, about 3 weeks later we were spending a lot of time together we went to a football game, got drunk, and ended up in her bedroom. Things started leading to sex, but she was drunk so I ended up going down on her and then all of her roommates came home drunk, so we joined the party. The next day she came over my place with this sexed crazed look in her eye and took me straight to my room where we made love for the 1st time. She told me she loved me, which I had felt when she looked into my eyes when we were making love. I had never felt so loved in my entire life and just so much warmth. We dated for 2 years, had a crazy chemistry, and were so open with each other. She would roll over in the middle of the night and caress me and I would wake up and we would make love.
Fond memories.
cute story. are you with someone now?Quote:
Originally Posted by FlaCooln [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I do not want to repeat myself, so just follow the link
http://www.loveforum.net/threads/77694-Long-Distance-Relationship?highlight=
Nope, ended a 5 year relationship over 7 months ago. Ready to meet a good woman.Quote:
Originally Posted by Katrina26 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I felt like this after 2 dates with my girl, our talks were just awesome meetingQuote:
Originally Posted by FlaCooln [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
her the first time in our car, for my mom's cleaning business of all places.
She first shared her info, initiated the first kiss on my lips.
The more time i spent with her, the more
i was falling for her and so was she.
I took her to my place, and she first didn't want to sleep together at that
moment as she said that she wouldn't be returning back to Canada, but
that night i explained myself and she started to warm me up and things
lead to something special, that we shared that night and did sleep in the same bed.
She liked how honest and real i was, and i just loved her personality.
P.S. Now it is long-distance, and hope to see her this summer,
and go from where we left off, in each others arms.
I once knew a guy that I felt, and still feel, that if I had been given enough time and enough of a chance with him, I could have fallen in love with him. No, I did not love him at the time of our parting, but it was just...odd. His name was Evan. He was just out of military service when I met him. He was also a great lover of literature, as am I. We used to go on walks together and debate various topics such as politics, books we read, and ideas on life and selfishness. We seldom agreed on our ideas, but he intrigued me. The conversation was always good, too. He told me that I had a sharp mind; he was actually the first guy I ever shared my opinions with. Before I met him, I had worse confidence and self-esteem than I do right now. I was always quiet- kept to myself and no one knew I was gay. I didn't really keep friends either because of trust issues. He was also the first guy I actually trusted enough to open up to. He was just the type of guy who could still make you feel like a human being even when he was mad at you... So, what went wrong? We both had our restrictions that kept us from keeping touch. I don't even know if he was gay/bisexual or not... I haven't seen him since June 9, 2009.
I didn't love him, but if we had dated, I think I could have.
But as for actual love I feel, I'm in love with a man right now that I can never have. I posted all about this in the Broken Heart's forum, so I won't go on too much about this. Basically, though, he's been my friend for three years pretty much. He was the first actual gay friend I ever had. Though, he now, as of his birthday two nights ago, has a boyfriend, I still wish this was a dream- that I'd wake up and it'd be October when we texted in the early morning after only a few hours of sleep- talking about making breakfast together and how good it could be. I love him more than anything, and I'm glad he's happy, though. I'll always love him. The first week I met him, I instantly liked him. We had a mutual attraction, but a misunderstanding kept us apart. We would talk and joke around all the time, and that first week holds one of my best memories with him. He was with his best friend and her boyfriend at the shore, and we were just texting. He expressed that he felt like the third wheel a lot, and we ended up having a really nice conversation about relationships and what a relationship should be. He sent me a picture that day of the beach they were at, and I've used that picture as the background of my phone more than I've ever used any other picture. It's just a 33kb image of the tide rolling in with his shadow cast in the foreground, but it's just one of those things that has sentimental value. Truth be told, I don't even know why I use it so much. But it's the only picture I really would be extremely upset about losing if my phone's files were all lost.
i have fallen in love countless times. Am the victim of a hundred one sided love affairs. I always fall in love alone, and get broken hearted too alone. How many times have i tried not to but i tend to pull down my defences the moment i go weak in my knees. Then what happens is a short lived magical short story with both of us moving farther away. But still no matter what, i dream and long for an everlasting love with a fairytale ending.This is my story of unrequited love.