hi everybody i would just like to know what are the TOP 5 wants and needs of women to keep them in a relationship and satisfied.thank you
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hi everybody i would just like to know what are the TOP 5 wants and needs of women to keep them in a relationship and satisfied.thank you
everybody is different. why do you ask?
i just wanna know coz i have been in a relationship that has been very demanding,pressured,possessive and no opportunity for growth,and i wanna know if all women are like this,i just got out of it yesterday and it is my first relationship.
not all women are like that. sounds like you've been through hell and met the devil.
yah,it feels like it,but i have loved her and gave everything i have,i took care of her heart for 4 years and it feels like i have wasted all the time and energy that i have given.i feel empty.
woman want what they can't have hence why all the assholes get girls and nice guys finish last! but yo never give up cuz some girls are freaks and sex is sexy;) and think about it thats 4 years u ****ed a girl and didnt have to worry about diseases and shit! its all good too many fish in tha sea
Nice guys finish last because they let girls finish first.
uh, this is ask a female.
anyway here we go.
#1. i need him to obey me.
#2. i need him to make me laugh.
#3. i need him to read my mind.
#4. i need him to be smart.
#5. i need him to have a big penis.
how big?Quote:
Originally Posted by misombra [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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nice guys dont finish last.
1)loyal/caring
2)polite/sweet
3)intelligent
4)funny
5)good in bed
Prove it. Because I bet you can't which means your statement is false.Quote:
Originally Posted by Taryn [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
how do you propose i prove it? and i know they don't finish last because most of my friends have girlfriends, and they're all nice guys
I fall under the nice guy thing and I been single for what seem for years. So I think it would be better to say not all nice guys finish last.Quote:
Originally Posted by Taryn [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
sorry, i take back what i said in that case. from my experience, nice guys dont finish last. sorry to hear you are having problems juru :(
Actually lately things seem to be improving.Quote:
Originally Posted by Taryn [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You might be a nice guy but your face looks like raw hamburger. And you smell like a construction site porta-pottie.
Its a good thing I am also a geek so I can make lots of money to get plastic surgery and drive around in expensive cars and laugh at you in your trailer.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Sorry to hear about the "nice guy" problems. Nice guys do finish last.Quote:
Originally Posted by jurupa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
What do women want? Well for starters....nobody knows. It is a shapeless moving target and changes for no reason at the drop of a hat. Do not approach women deterministically.
Adopt Mike Damone's strategy...if you put out the vibe to 30 thousand women, something is bound to happen...that's "the attitude." The attitude dictates that whether she comes, stays, lays or prays....no matter what happens, your toes are still tapping.
Top 5 in no particular order
1. Sense of humour (funny, makes me laugh, laughs with me, laughs @ himself, likes to do fun stuff)
2. Strong sense of family
3. Active / Motivated / Challenges me
4. Kind (to me, and to others) (includes being understanding and patient)
5. Sex
i know this is not the subjuect of the thread but i dont give a ****, in my opinion there are 2 types of "nice guy":
firstly there is the doormat (not just to women but in general), whos only nice because he hasnt got the balls to stand up for himself, hes not nice because he wants to - hes too much of a bitch to do anything else, no body wants that kind of partner
the second type of nice guy,is the person who has a simple philosophy to life "treat people like you want to be treated", he is nice because he has a general respect for all humans and would demand the same level of respect back
unfortunately in my opinion both types of "nice guys" finish last with women,why?? not really sure - i am not a mind reader, but my theory is that in general women are weak in the head, and with the right tools (mainly alocohol and maybe a nice car) are easily pursuaded - the "nice guy" would find it disrespectful to himself and the female to try and "play" her or try to "impress" her
Example: i remember back in high school, girls (not young ones, the older ones) would call my mate a "male whore" and a "sleaze", and i would waste a whole lunch time arguing with them that "my mate is just a normal male who likes having sex with different people" while i could have been smoking a big joint instead, that weekend we saw the same girls in town, got a little bit of alcohol in them and my mate went to "play" them - ended up ****ing 3 of them that weekend, by monday they were all fighting over him
alcohol and a nice car will only last so long, a good heart will be there forever.
sure, they might get it fast, but they wont have a lasting, loving relationship
but hey, that's just my opinion
I think that if you're the type of guy who treats women right--as in you respect them and treat them as human beings, not walking vaginas--but also express an interest beyond friendship, you'll do all right.
ive been brought up by a very conservative family,and this is what they believed,fall in love,lose your virginity to her and marry her,but i know this is not the real world it just bothers me why i cant let go,i knew i should have been lose and experimented with different girls first before being that serious in a relationship but anyway im glad i am at least good in bed if i dont have the other qualities.lmao
its not just alcohol and a nice car that will make women like you, i have had girls offer me sex based on reputation (not sexual reputation but my circle of friends), that to me is ****ing pathetic, most guys would never even think about having sex with someone just because their friends are connected or considered "cool" - i remember Tupac saying in the resurrection documentary "i was in the club one year before i got famous and couldnt find someone to dance with - saying i am too short or too skinny, after i became famous i was in the same club and the SAME girls that didnt like me the year before were all over me"
in my opinion when meeting women, having a good "heart" dont mean shit
and CAM those are real deep thoughts you have in there.thanks for reading everybody
good point zro
If you're looking for love in a club you're looking in the wrong place. Clubs are designed for sensualists. They're all about sight and sound, physical contact, not deep thoughts or good hearts. Of course a girl's going to choose the hottest, richest guy at a club. That's all she's got to go on.
1) Honesty, both with me and with himself
2) Self-starter- I don't need a project
3) Fiscally responsible
4) Some social ability
5) Hygiene is a must
Oh, and this probably goes without saying so I didn't list it: big penis.
damn my penis is only 6 inches,im not sure if that is big or anything but my gf calls me "jesus" whenever we make love.i hope its average if not mediocre.
ha ha!
I think that 6 inches is average.
And if I were to add that to my list of 5 I would say "a penis that is big enough". I don't happen to like a really big penis. But I've never measured my boyfriend!
Wait... six is average? I thought three.
Oh dear God!
have you dated smelly guys before? what the ****? if there are smelly dudes out there, i guess that's just one more advantage i have over them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You must not get out much, Lilwing. Every other guy I meet smells like ass.
Which I do.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
But as zro pointed out girls will say want they want, and then get with a guy that is basically the complete opposite of what they want in a guy. And I agree with zro on that girls are more attracted to guys with certain reputations.
Gribble - I bet you $20 that if you meet me I won't smell like ass. lol
i'm sure i will meet guys that smell like ass in my college. everyone at my school is pretty much the same. except like 10 people.Quote:
Originally Posted by Gribble [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
my room mate better not smell like ass.
I've dated guys who weren't particularly interested in flossing their teeth and had smelly feet. Also, earwax issues. Eew.Quote:
Originally Posted by lilwing [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I should probably mention the fact that I'm kind of uptight about the clean thing.
Hygiene isn't just about how you keep your person, but how you keep your environment as well. If a guy has a yellow smear down the front of his toilet and hair in his sink, I'm outta there.
hahahaha this post made me lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Gigabitch [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
lmao goodpoint giga,im glad i have OCD with cleanliness.
So, what you want is a big-dicked eunuch from the harems of Ottoman Turkey.
Good luck with the big penis search...did you know that on average, gay men have the largest dicks? No, it really is scientifically verifiable fact (journal articles are available, if you want a citation). In other words, guys with some of the biggest dicks are more likely to want to put it in some other guys carefully freshly enemaed rectum than in a woman's various orifices. Interesting fact, eh?
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Originally Posted by misombra [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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