We women hate somethings that our men do and whatnot, so what are some things we do that piss you off, annoy you, or turn you off?
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We women hate somethings that our men do and whatnot, so what are some things we do that piss you off, annoy you, or turn you off?
Oh, this is a good one!
I HATE the "hot and cold" game........either you're interested or you're not......I hate girls who play games, being all flirty, and then going cold and trying to make me "jealous" to see if I will chase you, and then ignore me for a week and then blow up my phone with texts when you're looking for attention.
I hate "attention whores", i.e. women who will flirt with me like crazy, while also flirting with lots of other guys, then act like you want me,giving me the "F me" eyes, and then when I flirt back heavily you act like you don't know why I'm doing it.
In other words, I like women who will tell me what the F is going on. A girl knows I'm single, she thinks I'm good looking enough, funny enough, etc. , then LET ME KNOW you're really interested in getting to know me better........if you're not interested, then don't just flirt around just because I'm the only guy in sight at the moment in the office, and then ignore me 5 minutes later.
Game playing.
Using your vaginas as a means to get what you want..
Unrealistic expectations.
Wow feel sorry for you... rest assured we all aren't like this !Quote:
Originally Posted by redmagnum [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I hate that some (most?) girls bottle up hurt feelings, sometimes for years, and then one day use it against us in an argument. Sometimes we can be insensitive without realising it, and sometimes the hurt feelings are completely misplaced. But if this is not communicated and dealt with, we can not be held responsible for the misunderstanding. And even when we are at fault, I think it is better to talk it over sooner than later, for the sake of the long term relationship.
On a side note, I have two male friends that act like that too. But out of more than thirty friends, I believe they are exceptions. I know many women that do brood in silence, and most male friends I know have an issue with that too.
So, what do you girls hate about us boys?
How a lot of them go for the really attractive girls then wonder why they can't meet anyone with a decent personality that doesn't play games.
I hate that girls avoid telling me the reason why they reject me.
@pisces25
Is it less likely that really attractive girls have a decent personality?
I hate when a girl is absolutely charming and affectionate, ad the next day, when I want to act in an affectionate way with her, she is suddenly much colder, without any apparent reason.
That complete luck of consistence really kills me, and I am unable to understand them!
When you ask what's wrong, because it's obvious something is wrong ... but then they tell you 'nothing'.
And later you get a kick in the nuts because you stopped asking and should have known what was wrong in the first place.
And then you still don't know what any of it was about :-/
It doesn't happen. What usually does happen is once they have decided you are not for them, the effort and potentially uncomfortable prospect of telling someone the real reasons why they aren't 'right' just doesn't rank highly among priorities, and is avoided. Sometimes it's probably for the best, but other times having some sincerity helps people move on, and improve themselves, if indeed there are things that need improving or changing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Yet another guy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Not all of course. But a lot of women probably get overlooked (like in a bar/niteclub situation) because they aren't as 'hot' as the woman next to them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Yet another guy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Possibly.Quote:
Originally Posted by Yet another guy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Think about it. We are generally drawn to pretty things. When it comes to really attractive girls, they are used to attention, and they don't even have to work for it.
To the rest of us mere mortals bestowed with average to good looks, the same kind of attention does not necessarily come so easy, at least, not solely as a result of our appearance.
We have to develop other attributes such as personality, charisma, communication, and a whole host of other skills, in order to interact successfully on a social level with others.
With the astoundingly attractive people, guys included, that's not always been necessary, and as such, they've either never had the need, or desire to develop other attributes that define and develop 'personality'.
This is perhaps why many people seem to think they do lack personality; probably because there is truth to that observation with a great deal of people who fit into that attractiveness 'category'.
I hate when you cut your hair really short and think it looks attractive. Down to the shoulders at least please.
If you really want to know I'll tell you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Yet another guy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
@maxmax
What do you mean "it doesn't happen"? It happens all the time. I group vague explanations to that category. Such as "it's complicated".
What I hate even more is when they avoid rejecting me entirely. If I ask them on a date, they may say, "maybe, I'll think about it" and I'll never see them again. Especially online. I've sent dozens and dozens of messages to girls on a dating site, and they ignore me completely. I find that incredibly rude and I'll never learn what I'm doing wrong!
It's always worse not to know for me. My stupid mind will always assume the worst.
@pisces25
Well, that's the situation where girls put themselves when they don't approach guys themselves.
Of course guys will approach the attractive ones first since they don't know anything about their personality yet.
Besides, people don't look for relationships in bars/nightclubs, do they?
No, that's what I'm saying. Actually getting the reasons for the rejection doesn't happen. At least, very rarely.Quote:
Originally Posted by Yet another guy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Many girls are very fickle anyhow, and in many cases if they did come out with the real reasons they'd look quite silly and shallow.
That isn't to say there aren't legitimate and substantial reasons at times, but we're unlikely to find out.
I've realised that the best thing to do is not to dwell on it.
I hate:
Women who are drama queens
Women who think it's OK to expect the guy to pay for everything
Women who are selfish
Women who are egotistical
Women who lie there like a dead fish when you are making love to them
Women who have no sense of humour
Women who have unrealistic expectations
Thankfully my GF has none of these faults. That is why she is still my GF.
Besides, people don't look for relationships in bars/nightclubs, do they?
I didn't know we were talking exclusively about r/ships just things guys do that girls hate and vice versa.
I don't think people go into clubs or bars specifically looking for a relationship. A lot of people go in the attempt to socialize and then hopefully develop a foundation to start a relationship with someone. I never went out with the intent of meeting someone. For me it's a byproduct of having a social life. Talking to and getting to know people.
max is right. A lot of the time girls will give you shallow answers because they're less hurtful than the real answers especially when it has to do with physical attraction or personality differences.
Yeah, but my point was, how much does personality really count if they're looking just sex... but now that I think about it, it actually matters quite a bit.Quote:
Originally Posted by pisces25 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
A random guy approaches you and extends his hand and says. "hi....I'm so and so...what's your name"? I'd say 70% of women actually think the guy is just being friendly. The thought that he wants to have a date and/or sleep with you doesn't enter thier minds.
This is more a crack up then an annoyance. :)
Actually, the more direct a guy is the more of a player we think they are (at least the discerning women). Stereotypically, we're not used to nice, confident men. The confident ones are typically the guys that secretly (or not so) hold a high opinion of themselves to the point they think they can walk up to any girl and score points. Besides, if a guy wants to exude confidence, then he'd better be able to deal with it when I try to knock him off his pedestal. How a guy handles pressure is a great test of character. The weaklings buckle and relent. A sincerely confident man is steadfast and honest.Quote:
Originally Posted by surfhb [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
That's why I hate it when guys use the line, "I'm not like other guys." Even the nice ones say it and it's big letdown when you've invested in a guy turns out to be all talk. Until you've shown me otherwise, I'm gonna play it safe.
All true! Ive usually just make things very quick by saying something like : " Hi...Im Robert.....I have tickets to a Dodger Game next week....would you like to meet me at the ballpark?" Not a whole lot of chit chat....just get it out there. At least Im not hiding my intentionQuote:
Originally Posted by lahnnabell [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
So, you invite them out the moment after you introduce yourself? I'd probably be a bit wary at such a quick offer. Probably best to put a little conversation in between your greeting and your offer.Quote:
Originally Posted by surfhb [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
No I should backup. I do put some conversation in there but I try to keep it at a minimum. I have to admit, idle chit chat bothers me....I need to work on it. I like it when everyones on the same pageQuote:
Originally Posted by lahnnabell [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Toilet paper! LOL!!!!
I can understand the toilet paper thing when we've got our periods. Sadly, that isn't a situation that can really be helped. That's actually one thing that irritates me about other women. Not being respectful about your feminine functions. You ladies and gents have been there when your GF or wife or roommate's left her used tampon sitting in the shower. Ugh. Or leaving tampons exposed in the trash. I hate that sh*t.
Interesting because I've been around a lot more men than women who clog the toilet. I remember one time these stupid teens clogged our toilet at work and it started to flood the bathroom. My busser (a kid in his late teens) comes running up to me with wide eyes. I knew the look and asked, "Oh jeez, what's wrong now?" He explained the situation and exclaimed, "It's like a pool back there!" I quite literally had to go in and plunge the toilet for him. Like, wow.Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Eeeeeew! Well that would be on my list for the OP's question then!Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
One thing I don't like that much is when they think they are not pretty.
Too much makeup is scary.
They generally wear too much make-up in order to hide something. Bad skin, change the shape of their eyes, etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by jb1111983 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
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Ok, that video was funny.
She does a bunch of 'em. Look up JennaMarbles on YouTube :) She's hilarious.Quote:
Originally Posted by bulrush [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
In my expierience the worst thing a woman can do is start flirting with you or messing around when she is yet to break up with her boyfriend, I had a girlfriend about over a year ago, when we first met she basically said to me "Are you a good kisser?" and I, at the time, said "Not really", which sounded better to me than "Never kissed before", apparently begginers luck as I pulled her that night and when we started going out I started to think "Well she cheated on him with me"... "What's to stop her from cheating on me!?" (I would like to point out I didn't know she had a boyfriend when I kissed her, otherwise I wouldn't have lol) so I became very paranoid and scared that she was with other guys etc.
So my major peeve is that you guys tend not to end a relationship before thinking of another one, the only thing that I can't stand lol
Flakiness is my number one annoyance. Seriously, if you agree to go on a date, at least show up.
Don't give me the "I have homework" on a Friday night excuse, or "my grandmother's dog is on fire, sorry."
You're not sorry. I suspect the real reason is usually "I met another guy I like better." If that's the case, just come right out and say it. It's ok, I can handle it. I've got plenty of other women I can call.
But from the ladies out there, I'd like to know the real reasons that you flake on guys. It would help me with pre-screening.
Really? I have never seen this kind of thing. Cleanliness next to godliness....Quote:
Originally Posted by lahnnabell [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
You know, this is a male training ploy tho. I learned to make direct statements. That lead to "So, why mention it at all? Just do it. Same amount of work."Quote:
Originally Posted by doppelgaenger [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I think there's a distinct difference in how M-F view communication.
One of the worst duties I ever had when I was in the Army was getting put on the detail to clean the female's latrine. Friggin' women are NASTY. I thought guys were bad, but hoooooo boy!Quote:
Originally Posted by IndiReloaded [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
In defense of my wife, she's quite good about her feminine hygiene products. My ex wasn't though. :P
Yeah....women can be just as bad.... Or worse slobs.
I was a cameraman on a womens surf film shot in Indonesia. A week hanging with these girls was making, even me, blush! You wouldn't believe some of the shit coming out of thier mouths. Seriously Lol!