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Would like to know what women think of virgin men.. Men who are not gay...but somehow stayed off sex for till..maybe 23..
when women know a particular guy has been a virgin..does it turn them off or interest them further to explore :detective and teach the NEW guy :evil: ur views pls..
depends on why he's a virgin and what kind of person he is.
In general, I wouldn't care all that much.
We've had threads like this before...go check them out
My boyfriend and I are both virgins and we're both 25 yrs old. He's the 1st guy I ever done oral sex with, what's good about virgins is they are clean and you don't have to worry about STDs or AIDS(I'm very overly cautious when it comes to things like that). The disadvantage that experienced women have with male virgins is probably their lack of sex game. But some of these women can be patient enough especially if they really like the guy they can teach him. In my situation, my boyfriend and I are new to the sex world and we are both growing together and learning.
So don't tell me that in the end it doesn't matter, because it does.Quote:
Originally Posted by miSSleepy [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
I said in GENERAL it doesn't matter...to me. If a guy is a virgin.Quote:
Originally Posted by boobaa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Whether it matters to the actual virgin guy, that wasn't the topic of the thread.
EDIT: you edited your post...damn you.
I don't think it matters as long as the participant is enthusiastic and willing to experiment.
How can you say in general, when at the same time you ask a specific question about why he is a virgin? It does matter.
When a guy tells me he's a virgin, I get this sudden horny urge to take their virginity(LOL). I dunno, I guess it's cuz I'd be able to teach them a few tricks and make their first time something to remember in a good way. Plus, it's rare to find virgin guys really. So much guys down here are ****ing sluts.
you are taking this very personally.Quote:
Originally Posted by boobaa [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
In general I take to mean as "with exceptions, but overall". I can very well say it and I have. I will make the assumption that it doesn't matter, until I find out "why". If the reason is some fault of character, then it does matter - not that he's a virgin per se, but the REASON he is a virgin.
If the guy is a great person and I see no critical flaw on him, then him being a virgin would not matter to me at all.
And again... I'm talking about ME. It's subjective. You can't tell me what matters and what doesn't matter to me. If you have some problem with your own virginity, make another thread.
I don't take this personally, I just want to know where specific thoughts come from.
But you answered it, it DOES matter. You are just willing to be drunk and forget it, deep down you do care. Because mostly someone being drunk has lot to do with losing virginity, or taking it. Otherwise you would feel obliqued at something. Adventures happen when people are drunk.
My boyfriend was a virgin and I didn't mind. I actually liked it..i found it cute and kind of endearing. We're 19, btw.
There are some women out there who might hold it against the guy, but I think it's pretty individual to the woman. There are definitely some who don't mind or perhaps would even prefer a virgin or a guy with less experience, myself included. Although for me to come across a virgin guy who is my age would be rare. I'd feel like I found a unicorn.
With all the diseases out there, a virgin guy isn't always a bad thing.
hey nish and star...and all de others..thanks for the feedback..looks like virgins are accepted.phew!;p
I've been a virgin for 29 years primarily because of religious indoctrination. In my grad-school years I got a lot more curious about science and reason and after much questioning eventually became an atheist. So originally my reason for being a virgin was because I thought sex before marriage was morally wrong, but now it is simply because I have not had a girlfriend between the time I deconverted and now.
I know other religious people my age who are still deeply convicted of the faith and are still "saving themselves" for marriage. They're not as hard to find as you might think, but finding an older man who is both a virgin and willing to have sex with you before marrying you is, as starbuck said, a bit like finding a unicorn. But search among the religious nuts and you'll find plenty of older virgins!
No,only some freaks like OnlyVirgin but female versions and ...Indignant, she takes it all :DQuote:
Originally Posted by fishgreen6 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
Send him my way.
I am also still Virgin....
maybe it's not about the virgin....
it's about the clean.... because a guy that is virgin is still the same.... unlike women that is virgin
so... me... yeah I like if we learn together
I have no problem with a man being a virgin...I'd much prefer that over a man who sleeps around a lot. I find it trashy to do that and it's a big turn off. I think a guy who has waited longer than most is more interesting and it shows they're different than other guys.Quote:
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